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help me please?? miltary extensions?
I am going through some mix emotions now! my dh told me he wants to extend for a year in korea! He almost finshed his tour but knows wants to extended. He says all business nothing personal to make extra money! I am hurt but he tells me to suck it up so we will be better moneywise! he didn't come home mid leave cause he don't have enough leave he has been gone since Jan. I don't know what to do! I am hurt, angry and etc. Why would he do this to me to our family! I understand totally what he is saying! i know he don't want to go back to iraq either he been 2 times! But i feel like i can't take it! It is hard being alone! Help! Should i be angry or just keep on! I thought them orders got to be approve! I pray that they don't approve! Being he is married with small kids! Help me!
To some not all everybody don't cheat! There are still good people on this earth! i just feel bad dued to the extension that tall
5 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
....well....if he extends another year, you can go join him in Korea and live there until the time is up....talk to him about that. I know if my husband got orders to Korea, we've already decided to extend for two years so I can go with him.
Military decisions are to be made between both the wife and husband....but, I always tend to lean on what my husband wants just because he's the one who is actually the Soldier.
Just keep your marriage strong while he's there!
Good luck!
- Candie137Lv 51 decade ago
yeah i think that it is selfish for him to extend when he is married and has small kids back home. The money might be good but he can make money back in the states and still see his family. I am really sorry that u have to go through this.
- 1 decade ago
Its tough but may be worth it the long run, just takes some time to get used to the idea.
Have you thought about Space A Travel? Maybe you can visit him for a short period
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Sounds to me like he's got himself a Ginza girl holed up in a hooch somewhere. Doesn't want to cut loose just yet. Tell him you are on to him and to get home. write a letter to his post Chaplain.
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- le VicSter!Lv 51 decade ago
I don't mean to be rude by saying this...for financial reasons or not, it sounds like he's been sniffing around another bush.
