What kind of woman knowingly dates a married man? What kind of whore does that?

OK, cinccy. Now we are with you.

All the women are here -- pro and illegal -- are with you and on your side. I guarantee it. (and if one of you women posts anything snide right now you'll have me to answer to.....)

Yes she's a whore. A used, skanky "that woman has a disease" piece of garbage.

But PS. She didn't take a vow with you. He did.

Let's meet up for target practice girl friend.

It's the responsibility of the husband and wife to respect and protect their vows. You don't know what your husband said or his motivation. Sorry, that it happened. For a person who has never been married. I know married men who doesn't even wear their wedding rings, men who are still seeking another and others who openly have girlfriends. I'm kind of scared to get married because I hear and see too much drama in relationships. I think people like the idea and the preparation of getting married but not actual being married. I don't know... I've learned that no matter what, you have to make sure your life is straight so if doesn't work out you will still be alright. P.S men can also be whores... they just don't know how to get away from getting caught. I guess you caught yourself a bad fish. I also learned that regardless, people will do what they WANT to do. Sorry For those who are respecting their vows... Your awesome!!!!

Hmmm,

I would have to say it is just as much the fault of your Husband as the W****. I am sorry that you are going through this I know it will be tough on you and the children.

BUT...(SMILE)........Payback is a B****. Lets see during the divorce you should get the house, car, custody of the children, perhaps alimony, plus child support. Sounds like your X's lifestyle is about to take a down turn and rightly so.

Its bad enough to mess with a married person but it takes a real S*** to knowingly mess around with a married person who has little children in the mix.

Your X and his GF are both scum.

WOW! The whole situation sounds devastating. It is truly unfortunate. There are all types of people out there.

I am not sure what state you are in; however unless there was a prenuptial or you are the primary earner.. you more than likely will not be able to take him for everything he's got. If you take your children, you will be able to get quite a bit; however do not make it a you hurt me emotionally personally, therefore it will take a financial lump sum to correct it. Be better, yes you are upset; however rather than revenge, just move on.

Your children do not need to witness a horrendous battle between their parents. Make sure you are not down talking their father to them.. yes, he is a pig.. but he is still their father.

There are some women that seek out married men.. and there are others that just end up with a married man; however without sticking up for those women.. I have to ask: Why does it concern you? She did not make a promise to you. Nor did she renew her vows to you. All too often people focus on the 3rd person rather than on the person that promised to love, honor & obey.

Who cares what kind of person would do that. I am more concerned with the type of person this affair is causing you to be. Yes, I would be furious, sad, crazy, skeptical, angry etc.. but at least you know.. do what you need to protect yourself and leave the revenge stuff alone.

It will be hard and it sucks.. but be better and take the high road.

I wish you well!

First of all....my condolences.....no one deserves that emotional abuse. Hope you can find peace in knowing you're rid of both those whores.

It seems even if a guy or girl has a good partner already, they want what they "don't have at the time" Its about pure selfishness, and spiritual immaturity.

If a person can't overcome the temptations of this world, they will be the lost souls.

As for yourself, save your own soul and sanity. Don't let a few

of the worst examples of "mankind" get in your way. I wish for your heart to heal, and the blessings of God.

Some women do it on purpose, they're called home wreckers. They find a man they like, knowing he's married, and pursue him anyway. Deep down she knows that if the wife ever finds out, she'll leave him and he's hers. Some turn it into a game - once the wife leaves it's not fun anymore and she'll move on too. They like the thrill of doing wrong and the adrenaline of possibly being caught.

Others are just naive and think they're "in love" and the little fact that he's married doesn't matter to them. Perhaps he pursued her and she fell for him. Not caring that he's married, she continues on in hopes that one day he'll actually fulfill his promises of leaving his wife. In most cases, he never does. If the wife finds out and leaves him, she thinks she won because now she has him all to herself. But, she's wrong.

But, in both instances you've won. How? Well, in the first case with the home wrecker, she'll end up leaving him when it's not fun anymore. He'll end up trying to crawl back to you because he's afraid to be alone. You can laugh in his face and give him what he deserves. In the second case, she'll end up exactly where you are one day. He'll cheat on her too. I'm not sure why women think that a man they acquired from an affair will suddenly turn over a new leaf and be faithful to them. It never happens.

Dust yourself off and hold your head up.

i feel for you and am sorry that your life has been so devastated. no one has the answers you seek but those two. i speak with experience when i tell you that the pain will get better and i hope that you do not become bitter for your sake and your children's. they need you to be strong for them as their world has crashed also.

i hope you have a strong network of support and that in time maybe even see this as a blessing that you didn't waste more years in the marriage.

again, i am so sorry for your situation. the best revenge you can have is to live well and be happy. that will take time and i am not a stranger to tragedy so these are not empty words.

I feel for you, I really do & although I would not consider dating a married man I don't think you should blame this woman.

She has absolutley no responsibility towards you & your relationship. She is looking out for herself, which when you think about it is what most people do. Her only responsibility is to her & her family.

Your husband however DID have a responsibility towards you so the blame needs to be aimed squarely &completely at him.

Women don't woo men away from their wives, men just stray because they think they can get away with it.

i'd like to know what kind of married man sleeps with another woman when he's married and committed to a woman in the first place... I wouldnt blame her. For all you know.. he told her he was single and didnt have any kids at all.. It was his responsibility to know he loves you and that cheating is a sin. If my husband cheated on me.. i'd cut his member off.. i'd rather rot in Leavenworth the rest of my life than to let him know he got away with it. You'll never have a reason why.. because you're not that kind of woman!! And not that desperate.... but if she knew he was married.. yeah she deserves to go to hell... because that's exactly where both of them are going anyway. Personally i think cheating should be worth about 2 years of prison time, thank the lord the military sees it the way i do.

WHOA! Wait a minute! Did she tie him down? Kidnap him? Threaten him in some way to have a relationship with her? This kind of thing takes TWO people! Why are you only blaming HER and calling her a whore? Your husband made the decision to be with her. Why is this all HER fault?

Ask the whore. And when I say whore I mean your husband. What kind of man cheats on his wife. Hubby sounds like a real catch. -- Throw him back .