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My oldest Sister died last night :-( ?

I miss her now, but later not having her here

will really sink in. :-(

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    awww...i can ttell you not to worry because its a real bad and tough sistuation. she must be happy in the heavens and missing you and she will never forget about you! she is thankfull for everything you did for her and i am sure she feels the same way as you! just remmember that its not your fault and that it happens to everyone even me and it will happen again. i aint trying to be funny but you will see her in heaven some day not soon but me to everyone will. dont worry...if it hapend ithats the way it had to happen! awww bless you and good luck with your future just stay strong and never forget her. im sure she would be thank full for everything you did for her and i am sure that if she could say something to you before she leaves is that she loves you....bless ya and saty strong!!!! bless ;-)

  • 1 decade ago

    i know exactly how you feel. i am 30 years old and i have lost 2 sisters. one in 1986, she was only 2 1/2 and was struck by a car my father was driving and my other sister was 22 in 1997 when she died in a car accident. time will heal your pain. just think about the good times you both had together. know that she is in a better place. May God Bless You!

  • 1 decade ago

    I am SO SORRY for your loss. Gosh, I am so sorry.

    HUG

    I know sisters are very special, as I have one too and she's everything. My heart realy goes out to you and to your family. I pray that you all find healing in this most sore time of need.

    Your sister is in a world so wonderful, so beautiful, so beyond anything we could ever dream up here. She is SO HAPPY! When you finally are able to be born into this wonderful life as well (Earthly death, spiritual birth), you will see her again and never ever have to be separated again.

    You will see her again. This is not goodbye, it's " 'til we meet again."

    I wish there was something I could do for you. I will pray for you and for your family. Again, I'm so sorry for what you're going through.

    EDIT: My email is DoloresGLlamas@yahoo.com. I know you don't know me, but that's all right. If you'd like to talk, please feel most welcome to email me. If you do, I would be more than happy to give you my cell#. I offer this to you with all sincerity.

    HUG

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm so sorry for your lost.

    May God bless her soul.

    May you and your family find comfort in knowing that your sister is now looking out for you, and praying for you.

    Losing a sister is very painful. Carry on your sister's passion and make the most of YOUR life.

    Best.

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  • ?
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    1 decade ago

    My mom died when I was nine so I know who bad it can be! At first I only cried because I thought I was supposed to cry and I thought my older sisters wouldget mad if I didn't. But even know I'm not too sad, I'll see her again in heaven. But its been amazing, I think God just completely numbed the pain!

  • 1 decade ago

    I am so sorry for your loss, there is nothing anyone could say to make you feel better, you will miss her I know, I will keep you in my prayers.

    Peace and Love

  • 1 decade ago

    Try not to think of what you have lost.

    Consider instead what you still have... what has not been lost at all.

    Afterall, you are still alive and have a responsibility to yourself to just get on with your life and live it as best you can.

    You'll manage alright without her.

    She wouldn't want you to spend your time being upset about her afterall.

  • 1 decade ago

    You have my sympathy and my condolences.

    I highly recommend a book called "Life After Loss" by Bob Deits:

    http://www.amazon.com/Life-After-Loss-Personal-Rel...

    It's really helped me cope following the death of my mother.

    Best wishes to you in this dark and difficult time...

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm sorry for your loss I hope you find peace.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I am so sorry. Bless your heart. I pray for the Holy Spirit to comfort you.

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