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My father asking me money but I want to study my self with my salary?

I am working as hardware Eng. getting 6000/- I want to reach my goal MCA with my money but my parents asking me money always already i am giving 2000/- pm. I have to pay fees in jan-08 15000/- but I dont have. they dont give. now what can i do i pay college fees? or give to parents. what is importent parents or career.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Career is important - just dun care, take the money go and study. Later tell them that you pay for the study. First of all pray to God and God know what to do

  • 1 decade ago

    I think ur contribution of 33 % of ur earnings every month is a very good gesture..How many of us really do that on a regular basis. A coomendable act . At the same time , U should make them understand ur need & desire to pursue ur higher education for which u r aiming , once completed, would enable you to contribute more towards their needs.

    U have to walk a tight rope, as unreasonable their demand maybe , U must not buckle under, for the sake of education... Parents are very imp & must be respected , but so is ur life, career & individuality. If u succeed in ur completion of MCA, u will be able to command a better salary, develop urself further , enhance ur self-esteem & ultimately make ur parents proud.........seems like they do not understand the imp. of education for u at this point of time...Talk to them , go & achieve ur objective , Shine & make all of them proud.....As of now , do what u must do...

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, that's good that you are studying without taking help of your parents and yes career is very important today.Just ask your parents to have faith on you and tell them that your further study will help you to earn more money than today's.I am sure your parents will support you.But be sure that your parent's trust on you should not waste.

    Best of luck.

    xxoxx

  • Luay14
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Try to find a balance between here and there ... if you spent your money on your career only, you will feel really bad later in life ... specially if something wrong happened .. and you wasn't able to help ... give them money, but in the same time, try to save money for yourself ... I'm sure you will find more than one way for that ... if you had to, you can use a visa or a loan ...

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  • 1 decade ago

    it is really a bad situation. u study and get a higher degree, more salary u can look after ur parents more comfortably. if u drop out due to pressure ur economic condition willnever improve. so sit and talk to ur parents.let them see the reality. if they support u now their furture will be bright. if u succumb to the pressure nobody can save u. if ur parents are not adjusting just go ahead and finish ur studies. afterwards u can give them ur attention and care. just try. best of luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Of-course career. You can make up for the parents demand when you start getting more. Once you discontinue education it would be much difficult to resume again. Time lost counts too much in career.

  • 1 decade ago

    if you ask your parents to wait for sometime then you may get a salary that is many times larger than what you get now and then provide your parents with money. but when you miss your career now you can't regain it later.

    but do what you think is right. after all this is your personal matter.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

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    1 decade ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    You are already giving enough money to your parents. The more you give them, the more they will expect from you. Now-a-days, only in very few cases, parents are sincere. Do not care too much about them. Go for your career. Have faith in God. Be strong and unyielding, or you will suffer.

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