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Why am I so unlucky?
Everyday my freind makes me feel ashamed by making jokes from my name and the whole day I suffer something or the other which is bad.
19 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Did you told your friends this?...like your question for us?
Are they your friends?
Namaste!
- 1 decade ago
I have gone through the same, so I know how it feels like. Don't keep on thinking about such things. That will build more frustration. I do the same; whenever anyone says something like that, I smile and join their discussion, showing where they are correct and where not. If possible, I try to draw some examples also. Suppose, what they are saying is logically correct (as per dictionary), so I say "u r right", but at the same time put forward some more examples which are 'logically correct' as per their way of thinking but are NOT RIGHT in reality. In this way I am able to nullify the weight of their jokes. And, above all, I feel happier thinking that I have proven them wrong.
Please don't show that they are able to upset you, because they want that. Even if you are upset, pertend to be enjoying their joke in front of them.
Wish you a happy life !
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Do not feel alone friend, I have had extremely bad luck throughout my life also, and I can honestly say it is not my fault, I did not cause it. I went to school and worked harder than most of the people I was surrounded by. I worked 2 full time jobs to try and get ahead. I am a 4 point student, have never been in trouble with the law, not even a traffic ticket, yet I never succeeded, as a matter of fact I was rejected and out right failed, not based upon the amount of effort I put into whatever I do, but based upon outright rejection from evil people. It really pisses me off when people say you fail because you didn't try, that is an outright lie. People who say that are ignorant. One thing I agree with is that you need to dump that so called friend. I'm not one to lie and tell you it gets better, after 36 years of waiting, I can honestly say it only gets worse. Sorry.
- tdrajagopalLv 61 decade ago
* Really!
* Rememeber u are one in a million who can use a computer.
* U are the one in a lakh to have food regularly
How dare u can claim urself unlucky.
* Think positively that, u are the centre of joke and u make many people happy at that time. Allow it and enjoy it.
The birth of Charlie Chaplin and many more comedians is similar and they made it for the whole world to laugh and enjoy.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
First of all there are two problems here.
1. your friend who is making jokes of your name
2. the amount of bad luck this seems to be causing
First lets deal with problem number two:
It is common knowledge that some people have more luck then others.
the extra luck that some have gets rubbed off on other people or objects. sometimes objects with high luck concentration are lost by lucky people.
if those objects are found by you the luck would flow from more concentration (in the object) to less concentration (you). this way you will gain a normal amount of luck (you will not be invincible but you wont be horribly unlucky either).
Now lets deal with problem number one:
Deliver a swift and powerfull kick targeted at your offending friends reproductive glands.
good luck!
Source(s): :) - 1 decade ago
You will be unlucky till the time you yourself feel that you are unlucky. The day you change your attitude towards yourself, you will turn lucky.
Dont bother what people say or think about you. They hardly matter. What matters is your confidenc on yourself! If you feel something bad happens to you everyday, try and figure out what is the cause of it. You may fail, but it doesnt mean you are unlucky.
And if you still feel unlucky, look at the people who are less fortunate than you. You will find yourself as the king of the world, when you see yourself from their eyes.
Boost your self confidence and be good to yourself.
- 1 decade ago
first of all, tell your "friend" to stop making jokes
if your friend doesn't stop, well, problem solved ... shake the friend and shake the shame
as far as suffering the day away, holy cow, just look on the bright side of things
your outlook invites more suffering than anything else, it is not that you are unlucky
- AliBabaLv 61 decade ago
you are as unlucky as you allow yourself to be. Don't let other people upset you. Try to change your attitude and think of yourself as the luckiest person in the world. If you enjoy good health, the use of all your limbs and are sufficiently intelligent to be positive...good things will come to you. Get align with the Universe and be joyous about it. Smile and be happy!
- ncamedtechLv 51 decade ago
Isn't it about time that enough is enough and stop this. Your not unlucky, you just need to speak up for yourself and walk away.
- neela mLv 51 decade ago
Who says? Then that person is unlucky. Forget the comments of other.
Do your duty well.
One day the person who is making fun of you, will definitely come to you seeking help. And you will be so generous that you will oblige/help him/her with your kind nature.
- Sloan RLv 51 decade ago
Maybe it's because you have no self esteem. If I were in your shoes I would get a few beers in me to help grow some balls and kick the sh!t out of my so called "friend". Luck doesn't exist. You make your own destiny my friend. Buck up and kick @ss! By the way I am THE ALL AMERICAN!!!!