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How do i deal with this person? THIS IS IMPORTANT!! Please help!?
I have a friend of mine whom I've known for a while, and it was like for a while she was constantly trying to hang onto me. Now she's the exact opposite- completely ignoring me! I hate it. recently, she had a party, and I didn't know anybody there. she basically ignored me until this huge group of people were hanging around me and we were talking. Case in point, its like she uses me- when people want to be around me, then she wants to too, but otherwise she doesn't care. We work together, so I obviously can't be unprofessional, but how do I deal with her? I hate being used.
6 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
nobody likes being used. but since you notice that she's using you, good for you! then you know it's not worth being her "friend"
the fact that you guys work together makes it hard, but maybe you could try making other friends and hang out with them more, but still be courteous to your coworker
- 1 decade ago
I guess the first thing you need to decide , are you really friends, do you really want to be friends with this person anymore. If you decide that you do, then you are going to have to tell her how you are feeling, tell her how she makes you feel. Give her the chance to explain to you why she has been the way she is.
If on the other hand you don't want the friendship to continue, just try and move on. You can still talk to her but try and limit the time you spend with her out of work if it is making you feel bad.....
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It's good that you realized that you had been used.I don't think your friend was expecting that and a good friend will not use her friends.Try to make her understand that and how you feel about it.
- 1 decade ago
stop haging with her .you will find alot of people in life will do the samething to you they just dont know how to treat a real friend until its to late.
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- 1 decade ago
cut her off...tell her that you think that it's best for the two of you to stop being in a one sided friendship
- 1 decade ago
Sound like you are getting your own medicine back.
You just can change her to suite your needs.
You sound selfish.