need an opinion about my husbands cell phone caller?

he was having phone sex with me

Seeing him on cell phone at night and you think he is talking to another woman. His reply was that he was talking to somebody else. There was no need, first of all, for you to follow him when he was talking. At least you should have allowed him to complete his conversation, and when he gets back to bed or the next day morning, you should have opened the topic. You know, he is a man and leave him like that. Let him speak to another woman, what is there to worry about. Do not get panicky, it may not be a case that needs such serious attention. Leave it like that. Remember that you can make a silly incident very serious by unwanted talk and doubts. Do not interfere too much in to his personal life as of now. Whenever you feel that your doubts are right, you can definitely encounter him with staright questions.

Do not worry, it may not be that serious, as you think.

Be careful how you handle this...if you flat out ask him..he is going to deny it...

what you should do is apologize...tell him you were having a bad day and over-reacted. let him think you arent thinking about it anymore...

someone mentioned a private investigator...that is too costly..BUT..what a PI can do that is only a couple hundred bucks is track every # that your husband dialed/calls received and at what time/date. It will take at least a few weeks...but once you have that info you can see who he is really talking to in the middle of the night...

it could be his friend...it could be about work, a health problem, maybe a problem with you he wanted to discuss with a friend. Either way..you need to know otherwise you will never trust him..if he is doing something wrong, you need to find out now..and if hes not you can rest assured.

write down the time and date of the call but don't get startled yet, you don't have enough evidence. Sit quiet and wait but don't be paranoid and keep your cool because it may not be what you thought. If you don't have online access then check when the bill comes. Should you want to register his cell phone you can do so but be careful because it sends a registration confirmation with the password on his cell phone, which means if you don't have his cell phone with you don't even try to do this. Just settle for the statement on paper which you may be able to request from your phone provider. You just have a little longer for this as compared to online statement. If you want more ways to check on it later without getting caught drop me an email.

I think you already know the answer to this. yes your husband is stupid, I have never been a cheater but if I were, I wouldn't be fool enough to do it in the yard or garage. trust is 85% of the deal, if you can't trust him no more than that, you may as well start making plans. don't let him wreck your psyche either. get you some new stuff so when he does kick you to the curb, you won't be all mentally screwed up . you will be getting serviced and won't have to go look for some under durress.

Since this is late at night and he is outside on the cell. I would believe there is something going on. Check his cell numbers, or the bill on line or on paper, take the day off work follow him. Get a wig rent a car, or borrow one from someone you work with that he doesn't know. Check everthing you possible can but at the same time play it cool with him otherwise you will not find out the whole truth.

That is very suspicious. If you are really worried, check his cell phone bill or if you have his password, check his call log online. If you trust him, just wait and see. Things that are done in the dark do come to light. Just monitor his behavior and his attitude for the next few days. Pray about it and let God reveal to you what the problem is. A woman has a six sense, that womens intuition. Use it.

From past experience I'd say it sounds like he may be cheating, why else would he be so scared and then suck up and be off the phone by the time you got out there?!....you can check the call log when the statement's ready online or once you receive it in the mail to make sure, or if you have a chance look through his phone for any unfamiliar numbers and/or names. Also maybe see if you can check his e-mail...Sorry!

Yeah, he could be planning something for you. If you have a mean gut in your feeling that he is talking to another women, try and wait till he is fully sleeping and grab his phone and check who had called him. Or if you get the phone bill you could check on that. I did that one time with my boyfriend, but he wasn't cheating on me when I had checked. That was a long time ago though, we are married now and I know he won't do that to me. I guess it's all on how much you know and trust him. I hope I was some help to you. Good Luck!

check the call log on his phone. if the number is missing that he called/ or called him, or if it's all deleted or whatever, write down the date and time... if you can remember, and then go online and check the call history when you get the next bill... that's if you can't check the history online yet... then, call the number find out who it is =) good luck! aparently he will not be truthful, so you will have to find out what the truth is... if you suspect an affair, don't have sex w/ him until you find out...or he will think everything is ok w/ you 2... a husband/wife should not hide anything from their spouse...ever! =) you have a right to know who he was talkin' to!

Sounds like he was being sneaky about something he felt guilty for later. If he had been planning a surprise for you, he would have laughed off your questions instead of acting weird about it. I would look into your phone call log, maybe call the cell phone company if your name is also on the bill. Also, look for other signs that he may be cheating now that you know something is up (check his clothes, car, etc).