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has this ever happend to u?

im deeply in love with a wonderful woman and have been for nine months, but my christian friends are trying to break us up cuz she is not a christian. if this has happend to u what did u do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Change my set of friends.

  • 1 decade ago

    No. Why does it matter if she's not Christian.

    I'm Catholic, and I would like to marry a Catholic person. But, if I don't....it's not the end of the world.

    You're religion doesn't make you any better of a person. There are bad Christians and there are good one's. There are bad Jews and good one's

    Would you rather be with a good Jew or a bad Christain.

    Religion is important.....but if you're religion tells you that associating with non-Christains is bad, then maybe you're attending the wrong church. I was raised to respect all walks of life/religions the same, as long as their good people inside.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, if you are a Christian and she is not, you will have problems in the future. When the Bible speaks of being equally yoked, it is talking about being of equal Christian faiths.

    If she's not a Christian and no desire to follow God or go to church, you are going to have lots of arguments. If the Bible is not her guide, you are going to have a hard time getting her to understand your point of view on doing certain things according to the Word of God. Antoher example is if you all ended up getting married, you'll have problems raising your children based on 2 different standards.

    Pray that she will become saved. She may be a great girl--I'm not denying that, but a house divided cannot stand.

  • 1 decade ago

    no, it never happen to me but if you truly love this women then

    you need to do what is best for you. but in the long run you will

    have to make a choice because it hard to maintain any

    relationship when one truly feel one way and the other does

    not, it will be more problem down the road. because of

    the beliefs. but love is the most powerful things that god

    gave us. so just do what is right and let god guide you.,

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  • 1 decade ago

    No this has never happened to me.

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