I tried some of the sights but can't find a roommate, help?

I am a 23 year old female, trying to find a roommate. I am a recent college graduate looking to strike out on my own. I realize that I can't afford it on my own, but still feel aprehensive about getting a roommate. Where can I find a decent one? I think it would be better not to live with a close friend because you tend to allow them to get away with much more than a stranger. But I would like someone who shares my interests and is easy to get along with. Help if anyone knows any other sites or other solutions. If it helps I live in South Jersey.