What should I do?

throw him out of your life

Drop both of the boys. You can do better.

Have you heared the saying 'Port in a Storm'? That's what the boy in prison is. You were low and you met him. You were looking reasurrance to perk you up. If I were you I would start again. Start going out, don't even look for a boy, you'll meet one when the time is right. I love the opposite sex but they are not the b all and end all of everything. Go out with your girlfriends, have a laugh, flirt, get your confidence back and wow you'll soon meet a nice lad.

J.

You could just be looking for an escape from your boyfriend. He isn't giving you enough so you are looking for it elsewhere.

The grass isn't always greener this guy will have problems too, just different ones from your current boyfriend.

Have a make or break conversation with your boyfriend. He may feel guilty once you explain how you feel.

If it doesn't work out and it is fate with this other guy then you will get with him. But wait until he is out of prison at least.

Your boyfriend: He's trying to get you to dump him. I do think that you should oblige him. Last thing you need is a silly boy who doesn't appreciate you,say no thanks and get going.

Your male friend: This is a tough one. I don't know what crime he has commited but as far as you are concerend he hasn't done anything to hurt you. However, he seems a little too willing to dump all his problems on you and use you. It's up to youin the long run but I think it's a bad idea to start being boyfriend and girlfriend just because he seems slighty nicer than your current boyfriend.

So, loose both of them and go and find yourself a good friend who will love and support you and have a wonderful relationship with him instead.

How about neither of them? There are decent guys around why bother with these two? The boyfriend has shown you how caring he is towards you. The other one is in jail. Keep looking they both are trouble. It's like jumping out the frying pan into the fire. Be nice to yourself stay on your own for awhile or find a nice guy who isn't in jail or who treats you like sh*t.

This guy treats you like crap and you accept it? I don't quite get that. Did your father treat your Mom like crap too? I don't always know what to say when people get involved with people that treat you bad and disrespectful and then ask what they can do to make it better. To make it better for you, dump the bum. Good luck.

The guy is in prison...? What did he do?

Regardless, why would you hang around with the first dude. Break it off, thats so obvious.....

Either way, things look grim

take him out of your life. if you going to be in a relationship with someone they should willingly give up some of their own time for you

dump the looser and dump the guy in jail, go find your self a nice guy

move on lifes too short.....leave him to the life he wants and find one thats best for you