what would u do if a guy did ....?

me: well im sure she wont bite if u do ask

him: but i dont wanna look like an asshole for even thinking it

and by 'theworst' i mean being witth another guy

and i know she doesnt do that but thats just my brain thinkin back to my past relationships

me: well if she does like u, she was probably just busy today and thats why she didnt talk to u all day

him: but even when we did talk she couldnt talk for very long like 5 min

me: why is that, u could have texted her or something

him: i did

me: oh, well u should still ask her, she might not have gotten the text

im sure she didnt mean to not respond to ur texts

him: ya i know

if only u could see me right now

me: why is that lol

him: im ready to break down right now

me: well u talk to me about it, ud b surprised at some answers

him: last time i felt thisway i got burned

and it was becuz of another guy

me: well if u say shes not like that then i would belive that and let her know that

me: that thats how u feel...

him: and i hate this now cuz what they did im gonna wrongly punish any future gf

and i know i should forget about the past but

me: its not ur fault u got hurt and u may b for a while

him: as someone said 'our past determines our future'

me: maybe so but the future is what u do in the present, and sometimes u have to trust someone new even if ur scared to get that new gf a bit of a chance

by the sounds of it she understands that u were hurt, but u should ask her or tell her how u feel about her im sure she will understand ... and im usually right about things im sure about

him: now im gettin texts from someone claimin to be her bf

me: who?

maybe i know the person if u let me know the name i could prove it wrong

me: steve girard

no dont know that name

i dont think, it doesnt sound familar, but if u ask her straight im sure she would tell u

? r u still there

he left for a while there was about 10 mins b4 i wrote r u t?

me: u know u could probably call her and ask her

him: im back now

me : k lol good

him: now i wanna get in a fight

me: why is that

him: because of the guy thats texting u?

could u scuze me for a sec im gonna write her an email

me: oh ok, no prob

i waited and waited until this came ....

well i guess not sent but this is how the conversation carried on .....

him: done

me: ok by the time it took u i take it was a long one

him: no just chose my words carefully

me: well thats always good, when should she b getting it? and what do u think she is going to say about it

him: she works at that sev so if she doesnt send anything back i wont be goin there anymore

me: hm, well theres always the other one

him: ya know

now i feel shitty