What should I do......??? my love........?

I'm sort of in this same predicament. My boyfriend doesn't say I love you very much, it's always me that says it, but in return he'll say i love you too. He never says it first, and it drives me crazy. The thing that i want the most is if he's not going to say it first, than at least sometimes show me he loves me, ya know, do something for her that shows her you love her, and there's nothing wrong with you saying it every once in awhile. I know this is going to sound corny, but on the movie Ghost, Patrick always said Ditto, if you can't say the actual words than say something that's along those lines, like 143 or 831 something like that, and make her understand that if she really does love you than she will accept whatever you have to offer her.

Hope this helps you somewhat, if this doesn't help you at all, sorry.

seriously, I used to feel that way about a woman. It actually happened with several different women. After a while I figured out that theyre all replaceable. (And so am I) . If she thinks you are a fool, then she isnt right for you. Best thing ive found is to move on and find another one. After you do this a few times you will see that they are everywhere and truly all replaceable, no matter what your heart (which is actually your biological urges disguised as emotions of "love") may tell you.

Music freak huh? Well I'm a bit of a music lover myself. I played her a song at a party. Story short I got some tears and an apology because she wasn't in to me anymore. She was the love of my life but before I left I denied myself to see that. Don't just say I love you man. Show her you love her. I love you is just a catch phrase these days put it all together into something she can hold on to so that later in her life whether she's with you or not she looks back on it and realizes "hey I ****** up." Don't think about the losing her man just do something creative.

Explain it to her. If she really loves you she'll understand. It's also good to write a poem or something maybe explaining why you can't say I love you to the person whom you obviously love. Actions speak louder than words my friend. Love is a feeling and emotion......it's not really something that words can do justice. Saying I love you is so empty without action........show her you love her. If she loves you she'll see that that is enough.

Okay I dont really understand your question...are you and her in a realationship??? Your not one of those ppl that thinks you are and you see her every night by looking out your window?

u need to keep on telling her that u luv her and tell her everything u just told us and that shes killing u by not listening