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Why Scorpio date told me "we have to have sex" why "have to"?

hi,I and this Scorpio male have talked to each other everyday over 5 months, He told me he really likes me but because it is long distance, we only see each other 7 days (he stayed in my place and I stayed in his), we haven't slept together yet but just in the same bed because I insist NO, I am a woman whose sexuality grows along with my heart. Now I am ready coz I truly like him too. One day he said "we have to have sex, like trest drive". why he use "HAVE TO"? isn't sex supposed to happen naturally? and we even haven't kissed each other yet. He said he would give me a passionate kiss next time he see me. He know that i will not sleep with him unless we are in a relationship not casual ones.He knew my principle so he said he will think about it... please tell me, why he thinks "have to" have sex? does he mean if we are not sexual compatible, he doesn't want to be with me?Thank you!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    My brother is a Scorpios and he's a pervert... Don't let him "test drive" you. Make sure he's in for the long haul first but then again you never know... He could decide either way not to be with you after having sex with you. You have to decide to if you want to wait until marriage or "test drive" a few men too...Good luck!

  • Die S
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I think you're obsessing over the have to part of it too much but I think what he was trying to say since he likened the experience to a test drive, is that he wants to know if you two are sexually compatible before getting into a serious relationship. It sounds like sex is an important part in the guy's relationship so it is up to you what you want to do.

  • 1 decade ago

    You havent kissed yet? Yeah, no sex till theres a strong committment. Good for you girl, none of that casual bs. He says you HAVE TO have sex because he wants to have sex but stick to your convictions.

    You could allow a little bit of passionate kissing and hugging...to show that your not an inexperienced twit like some people here might think.

    Some scorpios think they are more sexually adept than the rest of us, they are not, they are just more horny, but not any more talented.

    I think you should tell him you just want to be friends and find someone better honey, if you have held out this long, you deserve someone way better than him.

  • 1 decade ago

    You never HAVE TO have sex. It should happen naturally when both are ready, not on command. He wants to sleep with you before he decides whether he wants to be in relationship with you? Sex is not always great the first time anyway. So if it's not to his liking...no relationship? That guy is just weird...I'd think twice about sleeping with him...and then I'd think again.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Probably because he doesn't truly likes you, he is shallow, probably, but if you know his as much as you sad, the you shouldn't listen to anyone but yourself. You must understand, he is a men, and most men expect (not all, there are few that don't consider sex as priority believe it or not) only sex, and it is up to you to decide in which group he is.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    His astrological sign has nothing to do with the fact that he is an a$$hole. He only wants sex from you. As soon as he gets it, he might stick aroud for a little while if that thing is hittin right, but he'll leave as soon as he gets bored and leave you with a broken heart.

  • 1 decade ago

    actuallym that is exactly right. imagine falling in love with someone and they are great and will do anything for you but are terrible in bed. if they cant please you or you them, there is a good chanc it will be over. but putting it in the terms test drive is terrible. he needs to have more respect for you. im not saying go sleep with him now, do wait until you are in a relationship. let him know when you are ready

  • 1 decade ago

    He wants in your pants....you have been beating around the bush by sleeping in eachother's beds for a while now with nothing. Men are men...

  • 1 decade ago

    He just wants sex, he doesn't care if your ready or not!

    His star sign has nothing to do with the fact that he's shallow and selfish!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    oh my god!

    you 2 dun even know what love is!

    just stay as friend and be open, you will find someone better and perhaps further develop into a more mature, stable relationship.

    love is not equal to sex! there is no standard procedure...

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