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Am I hiding things?

My fiance and I moved in together about a month ago. We were talking this morning and she tells me she feels I am hiding things from her. She thinks this because I don't tell her everything about work and my communication with people at work. I work in Investment Banking and there is alot that she can't know. I am working on a current Acquisition that has to do witth he industry that she works in, how can I tell her that there are certain aspects of my job that I simple can't tell her about? She says that she tells me everything about her day and I hold things back. Am I "hiding" things from her as she accuses me of?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    tell her just what you said here. Some things you just cant talk about or you lose your job.

  • 1 decade ago

    I believe that you are not hiding things from her. If your job is really important that you can't tell her what it is about, then just don't tell her or just tell the bare minimum so she gets a little idea of what you're doing at work. I really hope this helps you a little, but other than that I really don't know what else to say...

  • 1 decade ago

    You have not been together long enough dude.If she gets mad at you she can bring a world of hurt on you.Give it at least a year then bring here in ...slowly

    Source(s): Elvis,the gray Alien and my cat Bucky!(just to lighten things up)
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