whats the best way to teach my 4yr old to not wee the bed....?

Hi, I think I would do the same as you. Don't make a big deal out of it and he will eventually stop on his own. Has he started school yet? A big event coming up like school can be a good way of talking to him about becoming a big boy, who goes to the toilet in the night as well as the day.

No drinks at least an hour before bedtime, toilet before bed and "lift" the child when you go to bed. Worked for my son after a couple of weeks. We also had a star chart going at the same time with a DVD as the reward, never looked back since! That was 3 years ago.... Good luck!

What I did with my daughter when she was 2 &1/2 was to make her go for a pee before I put her to bed, then when i went to my own bed a few hours later I got her up and took her to the toilet again to make sure her bladder was empty. After she did this pee I found that she slept right through the night without doing anymore.

Also incase you are worried about your son waking up and staying awake if you get him up - I found that not once has my daughter done this. Because she was still half asleep she went straight back to her bed without a fuss!

It just takes time!

I am having trouble with my 4 year old (day & night so maybe some control issues there) but the advise from the paediatrician was to lift the child out of bed at 11.00ish - when you got to bed - make sure he is actually awake then put him on the toilet.

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Children will have accidents like this their bladder can take up until a least until they are7 until they can controll bed wetting leave a potty in his room

Stop ALL liquid intake 3 hours before bed time, make sure he has emptied his bladder before going to bed and then you won't have to worry about accidents anymore. Also, take privileges away everytime he has an accident - especially his favorite things.

I wouldn't worry. He doesn't have accidents during the day. Don't forget he's only four years old. We were worried about our eldest until we heard that it's common for kids to wet the bed until they're seven. They don't have any control when they're asleep, so I'd leave them to it. Don't sweat the little things.

my 4 year old son also wees the bed on occasions, and i use those pampers bed mats which go over his sheet and if he has an accident so be it, but i could also do with some advice

take him to the toilet before he goes to bed.

then take him again before you go to bed (he will probably be half asleep at this point, but just carry him to the toilet, let him wee and put him back to bed). His bladder will then be empty and should then see the night through.