did i overreact?

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what would u do if u were talking to your mate that had accepted a marriage proposal and all of a sudden they said they need to go and would call back later, but never did and u did not hear from them for about 24hrs and that was in the form of a text msg.  Then u decide to go to yahoo 360 to leave a post only to find that u had been removed from her fav and someone else left a msg asking her to 69 with her and then you find that she is talking to other men on a singles site.  this woman was always secretive about her life and anything  about her, always hiding her phone when a text would come in and such. Also about a month earlier she confessed that she was a coke user.  I feel that she was being untrue and that she was using me, and i broke up with her,  what do u think

Alexander E · Accepted Answer

It sounds to me that you have been taken for a loop. The woman that you wanted to make your wife was living a double life, one that you knew about and another that didn't include you. I think you made the right decision in breaking up with her. You need to be with someone that also wants to be with you. Obviously, she didn't and that is why she held so many secrets from you. I hope you find a woman who can be open and honest with you.

bri · Answer

I.m not sure why you proposed in the first place if you knew she was using drugs and being secretive.
Anyway you know more about her now and she probably was just using you.
You have done the right thing in breaking up with her. She is not stable enough for marriage or a relationship right now. 
Go out and meet people. I'm sure you'll meet someone more suitable before too long.

Alyse · Answer

Move on.  She's not serious with you, is not trustworthy, and is disrespectful.  She is using you.  You need to find someone better.  Marriage is about commitment, trust and a lifetime together.  You are ready, and she's not.  Good luck!

QWERTY · Answer

What gave you the first clue?  Gosh, the deceit was so subtle I'm amazed you picked up on it.  Seriously, congrats on finding out.  You're better off without her.

forever_forward2006 · Answer

Move on this person obviously isn't worth your time or effort. It would be a mistake to stay with them and an even bigger mistake to get married to them.

Steve F · Answer

You did the right thing. Forget her. Life's too short. Move on. Good luck.

Anonymous · Answer

No, you didn't overreact. Breaking up with her is the right thing to do, especially since you know she is an addict and unfaithful.

bebe · Answer

you did the right thing, move on and NEVER think of her again, she is NOT worthy of your time ....... but next time you find your self a better person ...... and enjoy your life

Anonymous · Answer

obviously. this is a no brainer. i think you made the right choice.

Anonymous · Answer

Dump her and move on.

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