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I often ask that same question to my friends with two or three little ones. They seem frazzled all of the time. I think the least stressed moms of more than one kid, wait until their older one is 4 or 5 before they have another infant. That way the older one can be a little helpful and is more independent.

Certainly a family with 3-5 kids or more can be a blessing. And why not if your 'assembly line' is healthy and productive. I feel a gap of 2-3 yrs is best for siblings, so that the older ones is capable enough to look after the younger ones and your burden is lightened.After some experiences handling 2 children, another 2 or 3 more should become easier. But a more detailed watch on the economy and family situation after the second child may be a wise thing.

Best wishes for a productive future and a happy family!!!

my sister in law has twin girls 4 months later she got pregnant again while on the depo injection , unfortunate the she lost it at 9 weeks she was devastated but felt she would have struggled with 3 kids under 1. however she could not get over the loss so planned and then had a little boy. she is now he proud mother of twin girls aged 2 years.8 months and a son aged 14 months. she is exhausted and the house is never tidy they can make a room look like a whirlwind has blown through, they are now trying for number 4.

she loves her life and says that 4 children are enough but being close in age they will grow up together, and she would rather have them all little together rather than start all over again.

I can understand this i have 1 daughter now aged 10, i always wanted more than 1 but the timing was never right, before i knew it she was at nursery, the baby things got put away and the right time never came round, by time she was 5-6 the thought of starting again with nappies just filled me with dread.

If you are happy with 1 then why change things, enjoy that baby they grow up so fast. if not then stop talking and get making, let them grow up together. good luck

Going from 1 to 2 was the most difficult. After that they just seemed to fit in, almost like we had always been without them. My oldest was only 14 months when 2 came along, so maybe that was part of it, but by 8 weeks I remember thinking "This is going to work out ok!" You can do it. Lessen the demands on yourself, realize they will only be small for a short period of time, and be excited that in a couple of years they can actually learn to help you if you teach them well. They don't have to be burdensome, they really are blessings! It seems like a lot, but it's all in what you are trying to accomplish. If you are too busy keeping up with the "Joneses" you will run yourself ragged. If you enjoy your children, you will...well, enjoy your children!! Have fun and raise some great littles!

I have a soon to be 11 month old daughter and I am currently 36 weeks pregnant with my 2nd soon to be daughter......We wanted our babies at a close age... and we got what we wanted.....(and I know there will be comments about it, but I don't care.. I love my babies very much)....However, one baby is a hard task.. but you're a woman!! We can handle anything.....you just have to know when the right time is in your life to have another baby....ours is now.....After this baby we don't plan on having anymore for at least 6 years!.....You ask how we do it---altho my 2nd one isn't here yet, I know it will just come naturally...but I have the patience for this sort of situation as I have helped raise twins.

hey,

my daughter was 15 months old when i had my second daughter, Yes IT IS HARD , but it does get easier as they get older. At first i didnt think i would be able 2 handle it. but i adjusted, got a routine and enjoy every moment i have with them.yes, sometimes i think it would be easier with 1, but then my second child (6months old) looks up at me and smiles and i forget all about it.

i think human beings have the incredible ability to "make-do."

there are people who have 4, 5,8 or more kids. most of them are lower income. (you don't see too many rich people with a lot of kids) and yet they still are able to do it. not always in fasion, but they do.

if you have enough love, that's all it takes. you will be a wonderful parent to another child. good luck.

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you wait till you feel ready to have another baby .