I need some help perferrably from women?

You can try having a romantic evening. You can take her out to a nice resturant (it doesn't have to be fancy) come home and do the whole rose pedal on the floor thing and candles. It sounds cheesey but most girls love that kind of thing. And spend the night letting her know how important she is to you, try writing her a love letter and give it to her that night. Sometimes it's easier to put words down on paper. Go to this website for some romantic ideas www.lovingyou.com it has tons of ideas to make someone feel special. =]

The best you can do for her is to start showing her the love and affection she needs. Why are you being mean to her? Are you under stress? When you are with your wife tonight, talk with her. It's wonderful that you know you're hurting her. Half the battle is admitting when we're wrong. Now, you must let your wife in on it. If you're under some sort of stress (from work, or whatever)) tell her. Whatever is bothering you, tell her about it. Then say exactly what you've written here. It's beautiful. She's been a good wife to you. She's helped you through the roughest times. Beautiful. Tell her how much you love and appreciate having her as your wife and let her know you're going to start treating her with love and kindness. That's all she really wants is your love. Nothing could make her feel more special than to know you care for her. Trust me on this one!

You know, My husband had been being a monster too. I wonder if it's in the water?? We have a great marriage. He has just lately been on edge. I think that since we are so close and we have been together sooo long that I am the end of his rope and he chokes me with it lately. I have never seen him be violent in all our years until 2 months ago. He didn't hurt me, but hit the wall and broke his hand. I freaked and got out of the house and went and stayed somewhere else for the night. He was sober too. I just said one little wrong thing that he did not like, and he lost it!!! He tells everyone and the kids that this it is all his fault and that I did nothing to set him off, and honestly I didn't. Now as far as forgivness goes, do not think a special night in the bed is going to make it all go away. You will have to stop being a monster, do what ever it takes to achieve this issue with yourself. Gradually give back what you have taken out of her if she will still allow you to. You can't let her think you are doing extra things just to butter her up. I mean a vacation with just you and her will be nice. Now if you was my man and you do it again, I will walk away and never look back even if it kills me. I refuse to live with a monster. My husband has not thrown any more fits. If he ever does this to me again, I will be gone and he will hold the bag! I totally kiss his bottom all the way to laying out his underware and pajama shorts for bedtime. If he can't control his temper for me then I can and will walk out the door forever. I advise you to get help if you can't control being a monster. This scares most women to death. I never felt so unsure of my future until then. I won't ever be made feel that way again. We are fine now. I will always remember it though. He knows this. He did damage a part of our relationship. I will heal in time. I am trying to not remember though. I do love him with all my heart. he does treat me great. We do have children, they are close to being grown. So, without love we would have no reason to continue. I want to spend the rest of my life with this man. If he screws up one more time then our perfect marriage will come to the END... I don't exspect anything special to be done. Nothing can fix the hurt he caused me except to never do it again! I hope you understand too! Treat her like you want to be treated. Think before you act, Be the first to show her love, tell her your sorry and it will not happen anymore, CHANGE! best of luck. Pray for God to help you control this problem!

Buy her some flowers and a card of appreciation, take her out to a nice dinner, tell her how beautiful she is, rub her feet and her back. Those are just a few ideas. Oh yeah and stop being a monster.

When we were dateing my husband and I went through some pretty big ups and downs. One night he had been drinking and had a little too much, he picked a fight and said some awfull things to me (he made me cry) The following weekend he invited me to his house, when I got there he had a candle lite bath for me, gave me a really great massage and had my favorite comfort foods he spent the evening just sitting on the couch holding me and he really made me feel special.

Lots of love, affection and extra attention to her needs. Apologize for what you have done and let her see that you are willing to make a change. Rub her back, run her a bubble bath, spoil her. Treat and respect her like she is the most important thing in your world.

Women appreciate the little things that a man does for her. Tell her you love her, help her cook, snuggle up under a blanket and watch a movie together, play "your" song and dance with her, most of all just treat her with respect. Show her that you love her in everything that you do. Be the man she fell in love with.

1st off: don't make the woman you absolutely love...cry...thats an awful thing to do

2nd: Try taking her to a romantic dinner/dancing/cook for the two of you/movies

3rd: Do whatever you can to make her happy again "Let her know how beautiful she is and how much you really love her"

All you need to do is shower her with love shoe her you still care for her little detail like my husband one tim put roses in my car when I got into it the next morning I say the roses and the card that said I am sorry I love you also should go to anger managment to ctryt o control this becuase it is not normal. But do this fill your self with candy roses love her like when you first met her.

Easy.

Apologize for your past behavior and be nice. Also, whenever you talk with your wife, remember that she is your wife, not your child or the maid. This is the woman you vowed to share your life with. She should receive your utmost respect.