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My daughter has been nominated as homecoming princess....?

Long story short... it is her dad's weekend.. it's her first homecoming... I am taking her to get her hair done.. I would like pictures but I don't want to invade his space at all!!! (Not to mention his absence for the first 7 yrs decent guy now) I am a little disappointed that this all fell on his weekend, but hey that's the way the ball bounces right? I never did any of that stuff when I was in school... I kind of think I should go to the game to see if she is nominated or not.

That's the question... Do I go to the homecoming game in support, whether she wins or not?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    u are her mom , you should go to the game & support her. She will be really happy to see u

  • 1 decade ago

    Go to the game, if you think you may run into them you can allays sit on the guest side. They will never know that you are there. Also I think something like this you should stay just ask the guy if you could go. This is only the first of many co-parent events. you have high school graduation, college graduation and further down the line maybe even a wedding to attend. Your talking about one night not the whole weekend. This is also the first of many events a girl wants her parents to be there, not just one of you. Regardless of what he says just go to the game especialy if the shcools are larger. They will never know you were there.

  • 1 decade ago

    Aww Congrats. Ask her dad if yall can switch weekends. Like you have her the weekend of the homecoming and he gets her 2 weekends in a row after that. I used to do this with my dad all the time when I was in highschool. OR ask him if she can come Saturday morning. Make sure to let him know he can come take pictures as well. And yes deffinetely go and support her PERIOD! Kids want there parents support especially if they lose.

  • 1 decade ago

    Definitely go to the game and you could see if he would mind if you came to the house to take pics or maybe she could stop by your house before going or then again pics at the game would be good as well

    No matter what yes you should go to the game that is definitely not invading on his time just showing support for your daughter he should understand Just remember to allow him the same respect on big events that fall on your weekend

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should talk to your daughter ask what she wants,she may need you to help her get her ready. Also, when me children went to homecoming,proms we mothers went to the dates house also to take pictures, if they we're meeting at someones house to go in limos most of the parents went to take picture(just take pictures and go) So, I do not understand why you can not go to were your daughter is to take pictures...I have four sons and two daughters. I have lovely pictures. I learned a long time ago do not depend on others to give you pictures get your own..Of course go to the game.I am not divorce so I maybe wrong here but what are you going to do if her wedding falls on his weekend.Okay hopefully she be an adult for that day but shouldn't you and your ex share days like this?

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think in this situation it matters if your imposing on 'his' weekend. I think it would be best for your daughter to see BOTH of her parents supporting her in a time like this. She needs some support, either way. And i do think he will understand since it is such a big point in your daughers life. I hope that helps.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That would be a nice thing to do. Just make sure you're not too excited; your support could be taken the wrong way at this age haha. It's awesome that you want to be there for your daughter. I wish my mom liked those high-schooley things!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i would call her father and be like look ( make it plain and simple) OUR daughter got nominated homecoming princess...we both need to be at that game even though it is your weekend... ( at my high school the father walks her across the football field and they read her name his name he gives her flowers takes pix etc idk about your school find out b4 you call) but tell him its very important you get along during this at least for her

    yes you should go to the game take pix take pix b4 the dance etc even if she doesn't win make sure she knows she looked better then all the other girls and knowing both her parents are there will make her feel like a winner no matter what...take a few family pix even if it kills you and your ex

    good luck!!!

    Source(s): 19 year old girl my brothers gf was just one home coming court we went threw all this for her
  • yes you go to the game and yes you take plenty of pictures. im happy for her. thats great to hear. she will love to have her mother and father there to support weither she wins or not. i know these things. im 16 and a junior. never has been on homecomming court :( . tell her good luck and i hope she wins!!!!

    Source(s): me
  • 1 decade ago

    Go to the Game if he get mad. He will just have to be mad. That you daughter 2 And that a very happy time in her life that you need to be a part of.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Go to the game and support her and her dad will understand if you show up at the game.

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