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I woke up to a wet bed..?

I know for a fact that it wasn't me who peed on the bed. The only other person is my boyfriend. Should I ask him what he did?

Update:

Would putting baby powder or baking soda work?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    did you drink it>?

  • 1 decade ago

    These things happen sometimes.

    A plastic cover for the mattress, and a padded fitted sheet comforter to go over it should take care of the physical problems involved, should you plan on having him sleep there again.

    You might also ask if this amount of dampness is common for him, and decide from there what you want to do.

  • 1 decade ago

    I had a boyfriend that did that - I don't miss him or waking up to that anymore. Can you really spend the rest of your life with that habit and asking people how to get it out? I mean - come on. That's just gross. Let some other girl deal with it - since he apparently isn't. Of all the issues to worry about in a relationship - why would you worry about this one - don't waste your time.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes u should. actually u should of asked him right when u woke up. but its still not too late to ask him that. i mean thats ur boyfriend and u love him right? so i dont see no reason why u couldnt ask him why he did that...it could be many reasons for that...maybe he got problems, or it was just an accident...some ppl dream that they r using it and actually feel like they re sitting on the pot...i dont see anything wrong with it...just dont give him the feeling that u look down on him when u ask. make him feel confidential

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  • gm
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    My best friends boyfriend pee's the bed ALL the time when he's drunk. Wash your sheets for one thing and get some febreeze on the matress or your whole room will smell like pee. I'm sure he knows he did it lol * so yea tell him to try to refrain from it in the future.

  • 1 decade ago

    He could have jerked off in the middle of the night, and then his semen got the bed wet. Or he could have peed. Do you have any animals? They could have came in the middle of the night and wet the bed, then left. Or you could have done it, and not know it.

  • 1 decade ago

    um..no, of course not! So if he accidentally peed the bed do you think he would be happy having to answer to you about it? You should pretend not to know and just wash the sheets. Accidents happen but I'm sure he's mortified enough WITHOUT knowing you know.

    Or it could have been you... some people do it and don't even know.

  • 1 decade ago

    Definitely

  • 1 decade ago

    Gently approach him and invite him to book an appointment with the doctor over this. It's heartless to leave him for a medical condition he can't control. What if you had your period and messed the bed - should he leave you for that?

  • Sugar
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    No don't ask him .Tell him you know what he did. Then let him explain. Sorry but a wet dream does not smell like pee If my husband did that I would talk to him about it for a week.

  • 1 decade ago

    Why ask when you already know. Were you guys drinking? I am sure there is a good explanation for this.

    Nothing says I love you more then Squishy sheets.

    Hey I could sell that to Halmark :)

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