How do you recover from a recent death?

Baby you never recover. You adapt to the pain and tears. You grow weak to be strong. However you never recover, you learned to deal with everyday things, but that pain never ever goes away. Sorry for your Loss.

I don't know if you really recover but you do learn to adjust as time goes by. I lost my mother in 2000 and my brother two months later. I am still trying to get through this. There are groups that meet to help you get through grieving. I'm sorry for the death of the baby and I know it hurts. Sometimes, just to talk to someone helps.

Death....Now that's something I know more than I'd like to about. Death is hard to get over. I know it must be depressing thinking about it, and that's why you should try to NOT think about it. I know what hearing that is like, when I was 5 years old my step-mom died, and I loved her so much. People were always saying "try not to think about it" or "just think of all of the good times you guys had". I wanted nothing more than to bash their brains in with a baseball bat. After I got over my depressed, mourning stage, life became a little easier. Don't get me wrong I still missed her, but I found out that she was sick anyways, and was going to die much more painfully than a quick car crash. If you believe in God, then just look at is the baby got to go to heaven and live in paradise, if you don't believe in God than just consider that even though you would have liked to have seen this child grow up, at least the baby doesn't have to go through all of the pain, humiliation, disappointment, fear, and rejection life tends to offer. I know this might not sound like the best answer in the world, but that's how I got over (or as over as I can be) of my step-mom's death. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.

Try to do different stuff. Go in a trip, preferably with your mom(and dad if there is one) and clear your minds. Also write 100 things that make you smile and everytime your down, look at it.

I don't think anyone really recovers but in time you will learn to adjust.