What do I do now?

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My bf broke up with me 2 months ago. It has been 2 of the hardest months of my life - and trust me that is saying something. I miss him so much. I don't know how to move on from any of this. I keep thinking that I ma ok but then I have a day or a couple of days when all I can think about is him. I miss him so much my heart could burst. Since we broke up I have been in hospital three times and was signed off work for a bit. I juts can't picture my life without him in it but he won't even speak to me at all now. He was the man I wanted to marry. He was the only man that I have ever really trusted. Every time I try to think about the fact that I may never see him again makes me feel sick. I just don't know what to do anymore.

claire t · Accepted Answer

I can relate to this, I went through something similar a few years ago, and I know that this isnt much help at the moment, but time really does heal.  You will eventually get over him and move on you will be a stronger person for it.  Good Luck x

Anonymous · Answer

I really know how you feel but you cant force him to love you.  Your neediness has probably scared him off even more.  Please put some space between you and him.  Don't contact him for a few weeks, see if he calls you, if he doesn't then you have your answer.  Please be strong.  I broke up with my ex in April and still miss him like crazy when I finally accepted it is over, guess what - last week I had loads of missed calls from him!!  Hope will always be there but you need to work on making yourself stronger and not so dependent on him first.  Good luck, I sympathise with you.  I really do, it feels like a bereavement when you break up with someone you love so much.

Anonymous · Answer

everyone has got a story to tell about heartbreak.you are no way on your own.getting over someone you love is harder than someone you love passing away because you know they are still around.do what nina says here,keep your distance and you never know.it is so so so hard but it can be done and just take each day or hour as it happens.oh why did you break up?i hate it when true love dosent work out because we need more love in this world not anger,hurt or upset.i wish you the best of luck,let us know how you get on.

sweetiesweetydarling · Answer

You need to start getting a life. I know it is hard but stop dwelling in the past the more you think about him the worst it will be. Stop picturing your life with him and start having a good time. Have some fun with your mates and sooner rather than later you will find you are not thinking of him every minute

Anonymous · Answer

Stop if he was so good why hasn't he come back you are a better person than him get on with your life and look for a person than wants you and sees you for what you are a good person that can give some one lots of love there is someone out there for you

Playful~Beauty · Answer

If he wont speak to you, then do it the old fashion way, write him a letter telling him how you feel. And pop it through his mail box.
Express your true feelings to him and if he really loves you, and respects you, then he'll ring you to see how you are feeling.

Best of luck love.

Anonymous · Answer

Nunnery?

sazzyfrazz · Answer

you need to move on and get a bit of closure!try and meet another man....... honestly when that happens you wont even remember your ex's name! trust me!

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