I really need everyone's help!!- This is like major for me!!?

MEN USUALLY PUT OUR FEET IN OUR MOUTHS OFTEN! SOMETIMES,WE SAY THINGS THAT WE DON,T MEAN OR DO SOMETHING STUPID! THIS IS ONE OF THOSE TIMES. HE WANTS YOU,BUT DOESN'T KNOW HOW T TELL YOU.

Okay,

If he said it was over, and then begins talking to you again a few days later, this probably means he's thought long and hard about it, and wants to try it again.

I mean, guys are actually pretty simple [well, for the most part] so this is probably the most logical answer. Guys usually just don't go chat up a girl that rejected them once before without reason. What I suggest is just very suttlely start flirting with him. if he flirts back then you know that you're right.

GOOD LUCK!

Had some boy drama of my own lately.. ughh.

If there wasn't another guy involved, then you have a chance.

If "it was over" because he has a new girl, then you might not have a chance.

I've pretended that I was no longer interested in a girl if she turned me down because I wanted to give the impression that I wasn't bothered by her rejecting me.

Rest assured, if he ends up with a girl pretty soon, he's going to make sure you know about it one way or the other; expecially if she's way hotter than you. I've done that more than once to girls who turned me down. I've had a mousy, 5'2" mexican, who worked at a coffee shop, no car, no college, ten pounds overweight turn me down rudely. It was a blow to my ego.

A month later, a 5'9" strawberry blonde, younger, prettier, upper middle class, and educated, acted grateful when I asked her out. One day I took her to get a cup of coffee. I wanted to rub it in.

He might get his courage back if you tell him that you didn't go out not because you didn't want to, but because you couldn't. Make up an excuse: grounded, sick, anything.

well if he asked you out then he obviously likes you but you did kinda ruin it there by saying no...but if your friend told him how u really felt and he said it was over, it was probably because he was confused and mad at the same time....but then you said that he started to talk to you again like a week ago...which pretty much means that he still likes you and he MIGHT (not sure) want to get to know you better and see if your friend was actually telling him the truth about how you feel about him and he might ask you out

but for now just act normal with him, be yourself, and start out by becoming close friends and then just wait and see what happens.

*You* need to go to him and tell him how you feel. This same situation just happened to my friend except the girl turned him down TWICE. She told me how she hated that she said no. So I told him how she really felt and he asked her out again. She accepted and dumped him after 3 days and devastated him! Now I hate that I even t old him.

So I'd never recommend that someone get a second chance unless they are mature enough to go and tell the person how they feel without going through friends or such.

first of all you probally shouldnt have waited a month to tell him how you really felt. because that gave him time to heal from rejection and move on. and he probally talked to you maybe because he did not want to make it wierd between you too. but im not sure. there could always be some leftover feelings involved. you can ask him or have ur friend ask him if he still likes you.

either it is over and thats that you lost your chance i no its harsh but it happens orrrrrrrrr you hurt him so he wnated to hurt you back and if you work at it and talk to him but dont be major stalker or clingy or nething just find good times to talk to him you know have some fun together and he'll start liking you again orrrrrrrrrr u can sit down and have a talk with him and tell him how you feel and ask ihm how he feels and if he says its over then--then its definatly over good luck

He was probably extremely crushed at first when you said "no"... I mean after working up the guts to actually ask you and stuff... =/ Maybe he's afraid that your friend is lying to him... Maybe you should tell him yourself... Just tell him the whole story... Relationships are based around honesty...

Well . . . it really depends on the guy . In my opinion , he probably still wants you but is afraid that you really liking him is just a cruel joke . He doesn't wanna get hurt again . So maybe YOU need to tell him how you feel . But then again . . . that's just my opinion.

Sounds like you hurt his feelings and no guy likes to feel rejected i mean how would you feel if this happened to you. Maybe you need to let him know how you are really feeling. He probably feels weird being around you and doen't know how to act around you.

he is sad that u said no, but he likes u 2 much. u should go up to him and tell him u were overwhelmed when he asked u 2 go out w/ him and that u want to start over again