Why is it that you always want to be with someone who is either no good for you or someone you can't have?

The thrill of the chase. People always want what they can't have. It's like when you're a kid at an amusement park and you play those games (the ones where the odds are stacked against you) you play and play and play until you finally win one of those giant stuffed animals. You're happy with it...for a while...but then you realize..I can't ride anymore rides because this thing is burdensome and a pain in the butt!.

Humanity all together are never satisfied with what they have and we tend to be so stubborn that we always go for the a**holes or the married men. We like a challenge is really the best definition, if it seems to easy we want to go for the bad boy to see if we can somehow change them even though the old saying "once a bad boy always a bad boy" says otherwise. Try finding someone that's not that bad on looks and that just really appreciates you who knows their might be someone thats not that bad looking crushing on you but you want that hot sexy boss instead.

I ask myself those same questions myself, though usually if it's someone i like, they already got themself a b/f. Most girls i have ever been with always has a serious problem. So i usually feel trapped once it comes to finding someone who is right for me. To answer your question, i guess it seems like you feel insecure in someway. Maybe you are just wanting a guy so you won't be alone, or u know the guy is a dick, but you feel that you can change thast guy in some way to fit your needs. As for me, its hard to find a cool, down to earth chick these days. Oh wait, alot of them go with guy's that treat them like crap, why? i've got no clue

Stop dreaming and respect urself so a real guy can give u what u want