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What do I do??
After dumping my abusive ex-boyfriend of 2years for another man, he leaves me. He says that he is too busy to be in a relationship right now with all of his sports, school, and job.(and he lives 30mins away)
I am fine with dating him but not getting to see him very much, I would get to see him before and after class at school and that is FINE with me, but he doesnt want to even try. He says that he still loves me, and he acts like we are still together even though were not(no sexual interaction involved btw). I love him so much and I dont want to lose him for the world.
when i asked him about dating and not seeing eachother much he said that it would hurt me too much and he would rather hurt both of us by splitting up and just being friends than just me...
this breakup has been the hardest thing in my life and I dont know if i can go on without him...is there anyway that i could possibly change his mind or is it a loss cause? do u think that there could b someone else? i love him
He knows all of my secrets and I have always been completly honest with him about everything, more honest than i EVER was with my ex-boyfriend. he has been with me through everything and I have with him too...
I really want to be with him, not just as friends but actually be together
He told me all this stuff about our relationship before the breakup and it made everything seem so perfect, and i really thought we had a chance to make it all the way...what happened to the magic?! was my love trully one-sided? again?
should i wait for him like my heart tells me?
11 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Truthfully, he's being honest with you. I feel for you, I know what it's like to love someone. There's an old saying, "If you love someone, let them go, if they come back, there yours" Make him see what he's missing.
- 1 decade ago
I think the best thing you can do is try to spend time away from this guy. If he really wanted to be with you-he would, trust me. I have been in bad relationships in the past and now am married to a wonderful man and have two boys with him. You deserve a man that will love you with all his heart and you should not settle for less. I know it is hard when you do not have true love in your life yet-but he IS out there, I promise. The problem is that if you are not available to meet him-your true love will find someone else (and wouldn't that really suck??).
Find a hobby, immerse yourself in work, college classes, volunteering. Once you are not fixated on this guy-you will be able to see that there are better guys out there that will love and cherish you and want to tell everyone that they care about you. Believe in yourself, trust yourself, LOVE yourself. : ) and once you have done this-the right guy will see the beauty that lies within your soul-have faith!!
- 1 decade ago
Step out of yourself for a minute. Leave the hurt and pain behind and pretend you had a gorgeous, intelligent daughter with the world in front of her and someone was messing her like this. To me it sounds like, sorry, like he has found someone else. Sorry babe but I have been there done that. Its not you its me? I don't think so. ANY country in this world , women are abused- not an option kiddo
- 1 decade ago
Believe me I know it's hard, and he does care about you and is trying his best to be gentle with you but you need to give him space and move on. If he was really "in love" it wouldn't matter how busy he was he wouldn't think twice about making time for you. He's not that into you. Move on, hang out with your girlfriends and work on liking yourself more that way you don't become too clingy in relationships.
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- 1 decade ago
personally i think you do love him but if he loved you that much back he wouldn't give you up for any reason. To me it seems like your last two relationships haven't worked out that well so maybe you should go single for a while just take a break.
Source(s): me - JustANiceGuyHereLv 41 decade ago
You can't be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. There will be someone else for you. Move on and enjoy life, and that special person will come when the time is right.
- SettelbanatLv 41 decade ago
Of course there could be someone else, if you are in school, you are very young and have plenty of opportunity to meet your perfect match who will love and respect you.
- 1 decade ago
theres always a bad story in a relationship, its up to partners if they want to live it, or get over it... coz otherwise it won't be healthy, you should move on... something better lies ahead. you'll get over it.
- SnugglesLv 71 decade ago
MY OPINION IS TRY TO GET OVER HIM . IFS HES NOT WANTING TO FIND AWAY TO BE TOGETHER .THAT WOULD BE MY CLUE HE DOENST WANT ME , :(