babygurl

Alright, I won't bore you with all the details that no one wants to read. Basically I've had the life that no one wants to have or admit they had...Abuse (verbal, mental, emotional, physical by both parents and partners), rape, and relationships where my partner cheated. All this causing problems such as multiple times on suicide watch.

I recently got engaged, and he knows about my past and has always been caring and supportive of me in every way. But I've still got the insecurity that he's going to find someone else and leave. So much to the point that when he's tired and he can't really keep up his end of a conversation I think the worst. And it doesn't stop with just conversation, it also carries into the bedroom. I don't like taking my shirt off due to the fact because then you can "see me" and I don't feel good enough, or attractive.

This is going to ruin my relationship. I can't lose him...he's all I've got at this point. How can I get more comfortable with my body and try to move on from the past?

It almost always happens...sometimes its out of happiness and theres not many tears but other times...i can be all out balling my eyes out afraid of losing the person. I've only been in a relationship with 2 people. One for 3 years and one for a year. is this normal? or is there an underlying problem that I may wish to get looked at?

alright. ive been on the pill for almost an entire year. and while this gets a little uh...rated R please bear with me. its the last day of my period, it only lasts like a day, a day and a half. and for all you girls out there you know that when its light and everythings like...brown its almost the end. if i use a tampon, will it end sooner? or does it make no difference?

First off: My boyfriend has only been with me, so I know there is no STDs present...

Just recently it started to hurt when we were having sexual intercourse (and no its not cause hes too big...) and I was wondering if his not keeping up with his own personal hygene could give me stuff such as a yeast infection...?

If I'm taking birth control (Yaz) will it effect the results of an over the counter pregnancy test?

Last June, my boyfriend of 3 years and I split up because of his obsession with the game WoW. I refused to compete any longer. I found someone who was absolutly perfect in my eyes in everyway. We started dating, and everything was amazing...then he went to college. For 3 months he doesnt talk to me on the comp, answer my phone calls, call me, or come home to see me (even when he has vacations) and he told me that he was "no longer sure" of his feelings for me.

After waiting that long and things getting worse and worse, I started spending time with my friends, one of which was my ex (the one i dated for 3yrs) he has changed so much and i felt that connection that i did before he got addicted to WoW. I planned that since my current boyfriend was no longer interested in me, I could go back to my ex. No problem right?!

WRONG!!! last night, after 3 months of waiting he tells me that he loves me. NOW WHAT DO I DO?!!? I still love him...but is he just saying this cause hes home from college for a week, or do you think hes sincere?! who do i choose?

Do I stay with him? (yes i do still love him) or do I go back to my ex (I love him too)...?!?!?!

AAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!??!?!?!?!?! Any advice, opionions or thoughts would be much apprieciated.

ive reached the point in my relationship where sex seems like a chore rather than an act of passion. things with my bf have been rocky and ive been thinking about looking for "greener pastures" but dont want to leave a 3yr relationship that has been mostly good. but ive never reached MY climax, never get quality cuddle time after the fact, never get to choose when to an when not to have sex...u get the picture. and i know there must be someone out there who would b able to satisfy those simple sexual cravings...should i leave the chore an find some fun? or what?

Alright, I'm 16 and a junior (turning senior this June). My bf is 18 graduating this June and weve been together for 3yrs+ now. weve been "involved" for bout the same and the only "protection" we use is withdrawing before ejaculation, (i grew up with him and hes always been part of my life and the only one ive ever loved) but everytime i get my period i get upset, like ive let myself down. ive always wanted a family early in life and i would love to have a baby anytime i can get one. everyone tells me that i should wait till im out of school at least and i agree, cuz idk how i could ever tell my parents, and my bfs parents would kick him out of the house (they r very religious) but some part of me hates it everytime im not pregnant. is this a bad thing? my friends say that it will get me into trouble because ill end up with a baby i dont want, but i do want one...should i wait, get one now, or just let what happens happen?

On the left-front side of my neck (between my neck and collar bone)i have what i believe is a swollen lymph gland. its about the size of a golf-ball. its been that way for prolly over 2 years, while there is usually no pain what so ever when pressed there is slight agitation. i read that this is a common site for lymphatic cancer, do u think that this is cancer?

here are the lyrics, I think the title is "Worthy to Stand"

The battle rages on in the shadow of another day,

Its harder to be strong when so many here have lost their way.

I will give, and not fight, just to hold onto a ray of light

I will give all that I am, and put my life in Heaven's hand,

Even when, good men fall in every land,

I'll be worthy to stand.

I will not dispair, I will listen for the Master's call.

I will be prepared, I will be ready to surrender all.

I will go, I will do, be the witness I have promised you.

I will give all that I am, and put my heart in Heavens hand,

I'll defend, the cause of truth in every land,

Ill be worthy to stand.

When the war is won, and the battles of this life are through.

When the Savior comes, and the Earth is whole and new.

I will fall, on my knees, for the mercy He has shown to me.

I will give all that I am, just to touch His fierce and wounded hands.When He gathers every soul from every land,

Ill be worthy to stand.

My period normally lasts 5 days, an on the 4th day it "stops" an then starts back an finishes on the 5th day. well, my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex on that 4th day and he ejaculated inside me.

what is the chance that I am pregnant?

After dumping my abusive ex-boyfriend of 2years for another man, he leaves me. He says that he is too busy to be in a relationship right now with all of his sports, school, and job.(and he lives 30mins away)

I am fine with dating him but not getting to see him very much, I would get to see him before and after class at school and that is FINE with me, but he doesnt want to even try. He says that he still loves me, and he acts like we are still together even though were not(no sexual interaction involved btw). I love him so much and I dont want to lose him for the world.

when i asked him about dating and not seeing eachother much he said that it would hurt me too much and he would rather hurt both of us by splitting up and just being friends than just me...

this breakup has been the hardest thing in my life and I dont know if i can go on without him...is there anyway that i could possibly change his mind or is it a loss cause? do u think that there could b someone else? i love him

If it takes a car 32mins to travel someplace 16miles away on relativly flat ground with minor hills, how long would it take the average biker approxamately?

I have been dating someone for almost 2 yrs now, our anniversary is this weekend. We have done everything together, and theres nothing more that I could learn about him. Everything seems perfect except for 2 things: his computer/video game obsessions and his lack of touching except when he wants sex or something like that.

Lately, I started talking and texting one of my friends old boyfriends. We became friends quickly an he invited me to a youth group thing this weekend. I went and hung out with him for 12 hours, we had so much fun, more fun than ive had with my bf in a very long time if ever. When I was cold he comforted me, and back at his house during the movie we just talked and he held my hand. Everything felt perfect cause he seems to really care about my feelings and me for who i am.

I felt a slight spark but i dont know if thats because i truly love him or cause i was nervous about what my bf would think. Idk if I should stay with my boyfriend, or go with my friend. HELP ME!

If a guy is hit really hard in the nuts, can he become steryl? Like so hard that it hurt just to move, couldnt walk right, felt like they had bust open kinda hard...

What are some of the signs and symptoms of being pregnant besides a missed period?

My boyfriend has a 2.5 GPA (Grade Point Average) and he is interested in doing computer technology. We live in upstate NY near Cooperstown, and he wanted to go to ITTTech. He thinks he's going to fail this year and he failed last year and if he does fail then ITTTech will be out of the question and so will Albany. Where else can he go for computer technolgy without going to far from Cooperstown, NY? Please help me

I am schedualed for a MRI (On my lower back) at 6pm and I have a concert that I need to be at at 7:30-8ish. Will I be able to make it on time and not be loopy or other side effects?

Also, I am on Naproxen, a powerful pain releaver. According to the paper I got with the prescription it says to avoid asprin and hottubs. Do you think that I should wait to take my Naproxen until after the MRI, or shouldn't it matter?

Please only serious reliable answers...

Which is better The Pill or The Shot? I think its the shot (3 out of 100) vs. the pill (8 out of 100). Which do u think is better for preventing pregnancy? Which has the lease or...less severe side effects?

If normal body temp. is 98.8-98.9 what does it mean when your temperature is 95-96 degrees? (plz dont just say yr sick...xplain...details plz)