My bf killed himself?

Death of a loved one is never easy. You have to realize that even if he believed you drove him to the point of wanting to die that in the end he was not strong enough to deal with whatever y'all were facing. You cannot cause two lives to be wasted by blaming yourself for someone else actions. Whatever the real reason he took it with him and your life has to go forward now.

To that answer up there ^ you dont just encourage someone to kill themselves. Anyway, Im so so sorry it sounds really sudden and stuff. You should be upset, and grieve for a while. Then think of how he wouldnt want you to be upset and he wouldnt want you to dwell on it. Keep him in your thoughts and just try to carry on. I cant tell you its all going to be ok, and theres nothing I can say to make you feel better because nothing will. But I am here to listen so get in touch with me over email or something, Im always here to help you.

it's going to be a hard road ahead of you, no ones going to say it's going ot be easy. I'm really sorry for your loss.

However, just because he was your boyfriend, does not in any way possible mean it's your fault.

You need support aswell at this time, as you're suffering too.

You need to realise it wasn't your fault, and somehow get strength from yourself to get through this.

It could help you to talk to people you know, or maybe get some counselling, but i know how daunting that sounds.

Remember you can't blame yourself. and i'm really sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry. Please realize that it is a tragedy that probably had many causes. If you contributed a cause with even one remark that was hurtful, it is still not enough to make you responsible. If you think it was all your fault, it might be because you are not seeing the other parts of his life that were making him unhappy. I'm so very sorry for him and for you. Please try to heal. Counseling from a professional can get you started on that process.

my sincere condolences. you should not blame yourself something deep within him was the cause for losing hope. you will more than likely never know what. i do not know the details ,but i hope that you will hand this over to god as he can and will take any burdens we have. my thoughts and prayers go with you.

i might only say to her how sorry you're for her loss,perhaps go out and purchase a sympathy card for her,she will understand doubt choose you go help her by this troublesome time,only reassure her which you would be there for her any time.

omg im so srry this must be so hard for you. well if it was over you then was it reely your falt? this must be so hard. it probly wasent your falt. ill keep you and your bf in my prayers

my condolences. do you pray. pray and reminisce about the good times and always keep a picture of him close by.

i'm so sorry for you loss.i hope you get the strength and support to get through this.

forget sbout him get a new bf are friend life goes on be sides hes in a better place well if he killed him slef..... lets juts say u dont want to go were he whent off to ..............................