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Why do people think that happy, outgoing, cultured guys are gay?

Can't a guy just be happy -go- lucky and into the finer things in life without having everyone assume his sexual orientation?

Update:

pink lily...yeah, I'm that type of guy, and I like girls. And I'm single :)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    they are jealous ! I'm definitely fall head over heel for this type of guys....are u ??

  • 1 decade ago

    It's true but I must say it's a culture thing for sure. For example if I meet a "happy-go-lucky" guy as you described it, I'm usually torn between thinking he is gay, or that he's just foreign... rarely it's a combination of the two. I hate that I think that way upon observing people sometimes but other cultures definitely have more flamboyant straight men than America seems to.

  • 1 decade ago

    My kid brother asks that all the time, and he loves his wife passionately. I really don't know. I think it's envy. I've noticed that whenever enough women get to considering a NASCAR driver good-looking, gay rumors start about him, and I don't think that's a coincidence.

    Of course, I also laughed at a line from the Office last week, delivered by an openly gay character: "Besides having sex with men, I'd say the Finer Things Club is the gayest thing about me."

    Source(s): Explanation for that line: http://weblogs.newsday.com/entertainment/tv/blog/2...
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    in my opinion on a woman i like long pink hair, yet blonde is likewise great. i do no longer probable like makeup, as i think of a woman can look attractive without things on her face. yet while she replaced into to positioned on makeup it could be organic. residences or heels are the two amazing, it relies upon on what kind of flavor in shoes they have extremely! a woman who's dressed extremely elegantly in a delicate gown is the main tasty, i think of. great coats are additionally super! the perfect attributes a woman could have are to be candy and worrying with some humour, however the main serious ingredient is faithfulness. It breaks a guy's coronary heart while she's throughout different boys. She does not could desire to be happy inevitably, through fact what are relationships approximately if the lady can't be trouble-free approximately how she feels? :)

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  • Elana
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Yes ... but in American culture, for reasons historical, that is taken to mean gay.

    Consequently, happy heterosexual guys have learned NOT to do it.

    Consequently it actually can be construed as a sign ... that the person doesn't mind being perceived as gay.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't assume that about guys at all, most of my straight guy friends are like that... at least till I moved out here to the desert lol. but then again my perspective on stereotypes and people is a little skewed... lol I've always hated stereotypes and I love to find them not true

  • 1 decade ago

    You know, I'm not sure, I'm assuming because some gay guys are like that. This sounds like my boyfriend, but he is straight. Lol. Thus he is dating me.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    because unhappy, introverted and uncultured guys are str8?? they call it sterotyping.. people have a need to catagorize things/people. if you don't fit their definition for being str8 then they think your gay.. But what does it matter as long as your happy and secure in who and what you are!

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that it is such a breath of fresh air, and people aren't used to it that they don't know what to do with the information... They haven't been conditioned with the idea that men aren't pigs and live and die at sports..........

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Your sexual preference & what you do in the bedroom is no body's business. Why care about others comments? Do they pay your bills???

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