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which one is right for me?
ppl i'll make this as short as possible.frankly im torn between my wife who ive been seperated from for over 2 months coming out of a 9yr relationship.yes infedelity by both of us. but for over an hour last night she pleaded with me to give her a second chance.but ive met someone that is very much what ive always wanted in a women smart,ambitous,and takes care of home in all aspects.literly she spoils her man and i want to spoil her.not to mention feelings have developed but we are only having conversation.....oops she texting me now!! at the same time i want to move on with her and her kids.but i have a daughter by my wife and theres another addition to the family that is in question.i say this because my wifey told me that she wasnt s u r e who the father was. but dont get me wrong ive been no prince charming either,but havent made any outside children.why am i the one whos torn with hurting one or the other.this is really hurting me that i have to devastate one and move on. plz help
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
You are bound to your wife and none other. Do you not know that most men want to get back with there first wife after they have divorced them. She is your good thing, and you are using thissecond relationship as a covering. Get back with your wife and contribute the energy you gave to the new women with your old one.
We as men don't understand often until we lose it. You already are feeling it, but hiding yourself.
- beaners1229Lv 51 decade ago
How about taking a break from women for awhile? You are hopping from one person to another and aren't giving yourself time to heal. You say yourself that you haven't been a prince. You need to find out why and make sure you don't hurt anyone else by getting into a relationship before you are ready to be faithful and trustworthy.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You need to decide if it is love or lust that you have for the new woman. Once you do that you need to decide if you still are in love with your wife. If you are still in love with the wife and only in lust with something new then i suggest you get back with the wife whom you vowed to love forever.
