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what would you do?

Im a junior in high school, and I really like this girl, but I think that if I were to go out with her I wouldn't have as much time with her as I want to and she deserves better than that. I'm really busy, got a job, all honors and AP classes, and driver's ed after school. What would you do in my position; would you try and make time for a girlfriend, or jsut try and deal with what I have already?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If she likes you as much as you do her it will work out. She will understand how busy you are and appreciate that. She will not try to make you stop doing the things you like/need to do.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, I think differently than most people when it comes to dating and relationships, but here goes...you are in high school. You have a very very very long life ahead of you, and I don't see the point in dating unless you are ready to commit to this person long-term (as in marriage). And really, you are too young to make that kind of committment because lots of things will happen in your 20's that you won't expect, and that will change you as a person (as well as your spouse, which can be very hard on young marriages because you both end up feeling the person you are currently married to is not the same one you married way back when). So don't do it. Just be a good friend, let your friendship develop, and when you are older and wiser and more knowledgeable about life, your relationship will have become super strong and you'll be more ready for that committment. In the meantime, maybe you should just tell her you care alot about her and want to become a good friend, with the possibility of a different kind of relationship in the future when you'll be more ready to commit to her.

    Also, being able to fully concentrate on all those AP classes will pay off for you in the future, but over-committing yourself will probably wear you out and make your grades suffer. Focus on your learning and future career for now, then you'll have plenty of time to celebrate your successes and take it easy later!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think it's admerable that you think enough about this girl to even ask the ?. You have your whole life ahead of you and while I think she would blessed to have you you need to concentrate on what you already have. That said it dosn't mean that you can't have a special friendship with her. Who knows friends do make the best lovers and it may lead to something down the road.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    depends, keep the job because you will need to the money to take her out, and then after that talk too her about everything else, and how you think you should go about changing for her.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well...if I were you i would ask her out...if she says yes explain the situation to her...make sure she knows that we have alot of things to deal with but you will try to make time for her

  • 1 decade ago

    Seems like you already have a lot on your plate. Honey, just deal with what you have already.

  • 1 decade ago

    he he he im sorry i am half way sleep all i read was something about busy...... gueess what i am a freashmen... um wanna be yahoo buddies? emai lme at fire_freak_619@yahoo.com

  • 1 decade ago

    well ask her what she wants. does she like you?

    take your time and see if she is interested. if she is it wouldnt matter how long. just as long as yalll get to see each other

    Source(s): had it before
  • 1 decade ago

    Well all i go tto say it try it..yoyu never now what going to happen unlast you try it..

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