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Should I do it?

I know that most (gay) guys always prefer a huge one, but...

I am small. I have seriously considered to have a surgery on it, is it worth it? That's one of the reasons why I don't want to have a relationship with a guy (among many other things). I kind of know the risk that I have to go through (i am a pre-med). I know that most guys do care their partner's size. I don't know what to do!

Update:

I just don't want to get laughed at - you know how some guys would dump you if you are small

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  • xyxoxy
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    My 2nd bf was small and we were together for a long time. The sexual chemistry was amazing.

    Avoid the surgery unless there is something REALLY wrong.

    btw - I didn't realize there WAS a surgery to make you larger... only implants to make you hard.

  • 1 decade ago

    Honestly, though I can't really speak from experience, I couldn't care less about size (well, a micropenis might be a different story). I would say that the aesthetic qualities of the penis irrespective of size are much more important, and I doubt that such qualities would remain intact after surgery.

  • 1 decade ago

    If your partner of future b/f does not like the size of your penis, he is not worth having. He would be a very shallow person.

    The size of your penis doesn't matter, it is how you love someone and if you are a good person that people are looking for. Not a big penis.

    Be happy and proud of what you have and you will find someone who will love you for you.

    Good luck buddy

    take care

  • 1 decade ago

    Some gay guys are size queens, but I know that I am not. Also, most tops don't care because they are not gonna be taking it in the butt anyways.

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  • 1 decade ago

    No way man

    anyone thats that shallow is not worth being with

    Some girls get surgery for the same reason, and i'd give them the same answer..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Not all guys (or girls) are size queens. Be happy with what you have. Love yourself first. When you meet the right person, it really wont be a big deal. Besides, I'd much rather have someone love me for my mind than my body.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think the guys who only care about their sexual partner's size aren't worth getting involved with. And I'd be willing to bet that "most" gay guys AREN'T like that.

    Guys who truly care about you for who you are as a person won't care about something as trivial as that.

    Don't do it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Size shouldn't really matter if you and significant other enjoy sex. As long as if it gets nice and hard ,it shoud be OK;don't have the surgery.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's not worth it. Like everyone else has sad, if a guy cares that much about it, he's not worth it.

    And anyways, it's not the size, it's how you use it. ^_~

  • 1 decade ago

    well define small?

    how "small" are u.

    and me i personally dotn care

    thats just something extra

    i love men for their personality

    i fall head over heels

    haha

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