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A female is complaining that she is dry during sex, what could be the problem (cause)?

Yes, this is a serious question.

Update:

Thanks to everyone who posted suggestions, but Patti was the one who came through with the info web site. Thanks Patti. 10 points.

Now alow me to put the reasoning behind this question.

Would you beleve it was on an employment app.?

Yes the position she's applying for may require her to know this information.

We did a search under vaginal dryness and came up with so much "side" information that we couldn't go through it all.

Thanks again to everyone that helped out with this little problem.

Take Care everyone.

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  • Patti
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Some women are just drier than others. If this is your partner, try doing more to lead up to the actual sex. Experiment with what turns her on, that way she'll be wetter when you get to the intercourse. You could try using a lubricant product too. Make sure its water based if you're using it with condoms. (Oil based lubricants break down latex. Most lubes that are meant for sex are water based, but double check.) If it persists, there are some products that are inserted into the vagina to increase lubrication. Supposedly you do it a few times and then it lasts? I've never tried them and honestly don't know too much about it, but if I were having that problem, thats what I would look to.

    Check out this website for more info: http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/library/DS/00550.html

    Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It could be one of 3 things. One- you aren't taking long enough before sex. Try a little longer foreplay if so. Two- her body just doesn't lubricate very good. Try Astroglide lube or saliva works well too. KY also makes a product that helps moisten the vagina. Or three-she could have a medical problem such as a yeast infection or something. In this case, she needs medication or a doctors visit. They could give her medication also.

  • Sometimes women are just dry at certain times, it just happens naturally due to where she is in her cycle. If she's an older woman, it could be due to menopause. Also, the woman just may not be sexually aroused enough. You can fix dryness very easily: make sure the woman is properly aroused and/or buy some lubricant.

  • 1 decade ago

    Depending on this persons age it could be a number of reasons. Is this a new partner or an existing partner and this is a new problem? there may be a need to focus more on foreplay before penetration, your partner may have a hormone imbalance, or your partner may want a bit more stimulation and passion. Bottom line if your problem persists please see your Doctor. all the best

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  • 1 decade ago

    Either she's pre or post menopausal or she isn't turned on enough yet for intercourse. If that's the case then use foreplay for a while longer until she's practically begging for it!

    If it's because of menopause, then get a lube that you both will enjoy. Go shopping for it together.

  • 1 decade ago

    It really could be something medically wrong with her. She should talk with her gynecologist about it and try to get some help. I'll take your question serious because I believe you are not just joking.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Her partner doesnt turn her on

    She isnt fully read for sex. Probably needs more foreplay

    It could be a medical condition..

  • 1 decade ago

    1) Whisper sweet nothings in her ear.

    2) Use a lubricant.

  • 1 decade ago

    She's may not turn her on. But, not all women get it and depend on her cycle conditions.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Use lubricant and/or foreplay first.

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