Help on girl situation?

Umm just make sure you get the basics out of the way...you know whats you name....what do u do...or what school u go to ( depends on the age).....well after you start talking hopefully she will, so u guys will feel more comfortable around each other...maybe even crack a Lil joke...trust me it helps, and it doesn't matter if its a corny joke either...just get a smile on her face.....

Be your self bro, the only way for you two to connect is for you to be yourself.

Ask her first to have a causal coffee, or to go out to dinner to a casual restaurant. (i.e. 99's, Applebees, Chili's, Outback.. etc.) you know, nothing too fancy. Find out what she likes, what she doesn't like, pet peeves, stuff like that. Remember, dont be afraid to talk about yourself! Express your interests, but dont go overboard, if that makes any sense to you.

Finally, remember the little things. Open doors (into the building, and in/out of the car) push her chair in, throw a couple of random compliments out there. Kill em with kindness is what I always say. I will personally allow myself to be enslaved by you if you introduce me to any girl who doesn't mind a gentleman.

The key is, don't over work it. Don't try too hard. Even if you pull off an act for the night, it'll catch up sooner or later.

Good luck dude!!

If you need more specific help email me...

Sincerely,

B.

lol i know what you mean, sometimes i am at a loss for words as well around people i dont know... im always like 'so...'

anyway, when you get intorduced to them, ask them simple questions to kinda get to know who they are, what they like etc. if you have anything in common, be sure to acknoledge that, then you can get to talking on that particular subject. if your friends are there as well so you're in one big group, that should make things easier because SOMEONE will have something to say and you can just make comments off of what they say if all else fails lol.

good luck! maybe you'll meet a future girlfriend ;D

by the way, the complimenting thing mentioned above was a great idea!

You've heard it a million times before, but be yourself. Unless the real you is an incredibly annoying, egotistical moron, be yourself. Girls can tell when you're a fake. If you dont have anything to say, dont try to blurt out something you know is not funny or will contribute. Try and find something in common with her, and use that to start conversations. Good luck!

Dude, be calm above everything else. If you can't think of anything to say at least breathe cohesively. You don't need to ask girls much to have them blithering in no time. Talk to them the same way you would your guy friends.... except leave the obvious (censored) parts out. The force is with you -check back with results....

I've been in this situation, only I'm a girl, so i was meeting guys. Just ask some simple questions. Like something about music, or movies, or food. Something short & sweet, it's the easiest way to get to know them. (:

Ok I have some tips for you ( since I am a girl )

1. make eye contact when u speak.

2. Dont get nervous they r just people

3. never ever say something insulting

4. make sure u just dont stand there

5. flirt a little

6. make sure they see your there

7. ask one on a date ( if u like one of them )

8. DONT DONT DONT DONT WORRY!!!

( please mark me as best question i really need it)

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Pre-plan some things to talk about. Mention something going on in school, something on tv, etc. Make sure you have a lot of interesting topics. ALSO when in doubt, COMPLIMENT. There is NOT ONE SINGLE PERSON who doesn't love a great compliment.

"hello, how are you? That color looks great on you". You've immediately made them blush and instantly like you!

Good luck.

ok well some girls like shy guy when you get introduced just say whats up. most girls like it when guys are funny. i have a guy friend and hes awesome he always makes everyone laugh. all the girls like him. he is very random and always messes around like a dork. but they love that. but if the girls think there all that like goody goody than just forget about it. if they think there the most popular girl ever than it will be hard. but if your like super cute its pretty easy. just to start a confo think of like asking whats there fav color or whats there fav movie. that usually starts it. well thats all. just don't be to shy.

Just relax and be yourself. Don't ever pretend that turns women off. Behave yourself make interesting conversation and thereon go with the flow. Good luck