How hard is it to get over the guy who was almost you first boyfriend?

It will be really hard, but don't think about him, stay busy, you maynot ever forget how you felt about him, but, if you do these things, you will get over him.

It really does take a long time if you really love him. Just hang out with friends, get a little job, clean the house, watch movies.

Or, go out with other guys, "shop" around, but don't do anything like have sex or anything like that. Just mutual friends. And if you like him and he likes you, move on to a higher level in your relaitonship.

You'll be okay kiddo, keep your hopes up!

Sometyms its really hard to accept that you gave everything to that person but end up for nothing..I believed that u invested so much time and emotion on that guy though you never had the real level of relationship.But the pain is desame cos u still lost someone special.

I know in gods time, ull get over him. It wont be that easy but just believe that its for the better.Like what ive been through.Believe me, ull surpass this challenge.

You can find another one, whose far better than you've lost.

Goodluck and just pray

we're kinda in the same situation. indeed it is very hard to get over your almost first boyfriend

what do you mean, "almost"? you either went out with him or you didnt. simple as, and if you didnt, stop dwelling on something that didnt happen and get a life you ninny!!

it takes a different amount of time by every person

you will never completley get over any guy