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Which party should i go to?

I invited to my friend's cousin birthday and my friend is throwing a party for me and her 3 yrs old son who share birth date with me(- THIS PARTY IS ONE THING I WOULDN'T WANT TO MISS, BUT THE FACT THAT MOST PEOPLE WHO TREATED ME BAD AND ARE SO NEGATIVE,ARE GOING TO BE AROUND AND SINCE I DON'T TALK THE SAME LANGUAGE AS THEM OF MOTHER AND CHILDREN, AND SINCE THEY ARE ALL MOTHERS AND I AM NOT I DON'T WANT TO FEEL LEFT OUT WHEN THEY DO THEIR MOTHER TALK and kids running around) on the other side i think i am better off to my friend's cousin birthday party then i will be happy . I am thinking of popping up at my friend's son party for few minutes and drop the present and continue to go with my friend to her cousin's party.Please help me ,which is the wise choice for me.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    you`ve already answered it for yourself, you know what to do ;)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Your friend is throwing a party for you. This is a great opportunit to attend your party and let your friend know that you appreciate her. Cousins have birthday parties all the time but friends don't throw a party for you forever. Respect your friend and go for the friend's party!

    Remember you didn't choose cousins but chose friends which doesn't mean that cousins aren't important but friends are always friends

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well if u really dont want to be with these people then just popped in like u said drop off the present stay for like 5-10 or 20 minutes apologize for leaving so early nd tell them you have to leave because u promised ur friends cousin you'd be at there party wayy before you knew about this party and then leave

  • 1 decade ago

    you got it right 1st time- drop a present off for the 3 yr old and then go on to the party your friends cousin is having. Partaaaay On Girl !!

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  • 1 decade ago

    I'm in the same Situation my brothers birthday party is

    Saturday and My best friends sons is to.Its kinda easy

    thou since their throwing a party for you and your

    friends son should go there.And get a nice gift for your

    friends cousin.

    Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    u should definatly go 2 ur party cuz if they can take tha time 2 throw a party 4 u thin u should go 2 that 1

  • 1 decade ago

    I agree with answers already said, that yoiu know what to do already.

    IF you are not comfortable being near people who will insult you, then----my God--- I would not want to be around them either.

    But if you want to see your friend.... and/or if she maybe needs you there..... then go to the party for a tense while, but explain from your heart that you have been invited (maybe first?) to this other party which you have also been invited to. IF YOUR FRIEND CAN'T UNDERSTAND,.......? Is she your friend? Try and get her to see your way. (or...?)

  • 1 decade ago

    i personally would go to your friends sons party, since your friend is there you can be with her most of the time.

  • Beth
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    If she is throwing the party for you, then you HAVE to show up! Stay for more then a minute or two! Then make your excuses and go.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    friends cousins don't want to feel left out

  • 1 decade ago

    i think you should go to your friend's cousin's party.

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