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Eddy asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 1 decade ago

My son is overly afraid ?

When I tell my son not play with fire or knives .. etc just to be careful , my son becomes too frightened and would not come into a room where a knife is located or a candle is lit, he over reacts to anything I warn him about.. I dont yell at him, I only tell him be careful of this or that not harm himself or his sister and boom he will take my advice very seriuosly, too much to the extreme.. what shall I do to warn him but not to frighten him so much and what shall I do towards the things he became overly afraid of ?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    When you are giving him precautions just be sure that when it isn't something that could cause bodily harm you don’t warn him. Some things kids have to figure out on their own. If he can’t try some things for himself and learn things by experience, chances are that he will always consult you about the ‘what ifs’. I really hope that made a bit of sense.

    It is difficult because of course you want to protect you children from everything, but there must be some balance.

    You need to show him that things that can be harmful also are functional, and that they are nothing to fear. It doesn’t have to be force fed or anything in that manner, but let him see the purpose of the things he fears. When you tell him not to touch something don’t make it sound life threatening or at all over the top. Just be sure he realizes that it’s something to be aware of.

    You care about your son very much I can tell, but you still must not let your apprehension guard him from everything. Some things are best left to learn on one's own.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well the best you can do is make him aware but not afraid.

    just sit him down and tell him these things are dangerous but don't be afraid of them. just let him know what to do if there ever is a situation with a knife or fire help him understand. then maybe he won't be so scared because he knows how to handle that sitiation.

    still fires & knives are the most pleasant things in the world

  • serpa
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think he may have some anxiety issues...Bring him to a psychologist or have him talk to the one at school. I have anxiety and that just sounds a lot like me. Try that that is all you can do. Oh and tell his doctor.

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  • Train him to use the 'tools'. It will remove the fear. Make it clear that once he know something about it that he's not an expert, and to be using them without your supervision.

    Empower the dude with knowledge

  • 1 decade ago

    tell him dat ur advice is an advice of a mother caring for him, u tell him not to play with knife or fire is just an opinion so he doesnt have 2 b like dat

  • 1 decade ago

    dint say it like its a bad thing

    if that still doesn't work he should see a cycologist

    I have a friend whos like that so he went to see a cycologist and now hes much better

  • ZCT
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Tell him to be careful not to be afraid.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    reverse what you want him to do but telling him not to that should work out

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