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why would a guy tell you he is really interested, date three times, want more, and panic when you agree?

Update:

First three dates were wonderful. Great chemistry, lots of kissing, very romantic, holding hands during dinner, made sure our table was private and by the fireplace. I am ready for this to go further now, and he said he wanted that, but then got worried that I was too "Serious". Never said a word about being serious yet.

Update 2:

I mean I didn't say I was serious. We only met a few weeks ago--it's too soon to be really serious.

Update 3:

Agreed to see him again...and maybe become more intimate...We are not kids...both of us have been married before and are single for a while.

Update 4:

He told me that I am a challenge and I am kind of intimidating, but that was on our second date,and he was happy to go out on a third one. We have this intense chemistry. Hard to keep our hands off each other kind of thing, but we also have great, funny conversations. It's like we've known each other for years--I told him I just wanted to be sure he was really available, and he got freaky about it. I have had lots of guys lie about being single--that's all I meant. He's calmed down about it now that I assured him that's all I meant, but it seems strange to me.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Guys are weird ;)

    I think if he panicked then he wasn't really meaning what he said and thought crap she really does feel this way. Only explanation.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe he's not used to getting what he wants in life, and is scarred that things are going his way. To him it might be like, this is too perfect, something must be wrong, or something bad will probably happen. Or he might want more, but he has something to hide, like he's a virgin, or something. Also, maybe he just went out with you on a bet or something, and the bets now off.

  • 1 decade ago

    It seems to me that he might be testing you. He may have wanted to see how you really were. By agreeing, you may have failed, and may have ended up not looking good in his eyes. Not all men are into sex after only 3 dates.

    It's either that, or he just wasn't expecting you to say yes, and doesn't know what to do with himself.

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  • 1 decade ago

    He's scared. It also depends on what you said when you "agreed".

    Check out this website:

    http://love.ivillage.com/

    They have some really great advice here.

  • 1 decade ago

    Afraid of commitment, ask him if he ready to settle down

  • 1 decade ago

    Afraid of commitment. RUN!

  • 1 decade ago

    Because he might have not seen what was to be expected if you exdepted..he might have not thought it through!

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