Are we destined? or we make our Destiny ?

It's really a hard question , but the answer might be found in us, in our thoughts . If u are a christian , like me, maybe you will appreciate my answer. I think we are able to manipulate our being, our future, but in the same measure we depend of God.I believe in God and I also believe that He let us take the smallest decisions , like the job we want, the person we want marry with ,etc. The big decisions are on His hands : the moment we are dying or getting ill (i mean serious health problems ).

Well,this depends on someone's belief right?

In my opinion both are correct.We are destined and we will make our destiny.

Our life is programmed from the beginning.The only way you can change your destiny(make new destiny) is effort and pray.

This is what I believe.

It is neither. We are more like little boats on storm-tossed seas. We get blown this way or that, with no plan or destiny, and we can in turn make some feeble efforts to influence our direction, which may or may not work, and that's a more true picture of our status than destiny or not.

We make our destiny because we are the ones to decide. If there weren't any choices then we would be destined.

I believe everyone has a destination God want for us, however God allows us choices to find our own path. Some of us find our destination some take a long time finding it and unfortunately some never do.

We have freedom of choice. We choose or choices. The choices we make have consequences. He is a simple example: You come to a point in a road that is a Y one road is Choice Street the other is Choice Road, who you meet and your destination will be determined by which road you choose.

You are given chocies in life and it is your destiny to chose the best path for you.

Certain things and certain people are indeed destined.

Well, I asked this same question in a different way...

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