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From Class to Trash?
Do you have any friends or relatives that dump/cheated on their partners for someone trashy? I mean the person they were previously with in your own opinion was mature, had a sense of morals, someone with class, and ends up going for someone who is considered trash to you?
A friend cheated on his GF of 5 years with a younger gal. His reasoning, in his own words, "she wasn't on his level". He said things became sexual after 3 days of being with the younger gal, as soon as the ex GF moved out, the new gal moved in the next day. From what I can tell he went from "Class to Trash" and I guess that is where he stands. He wants to be part of Trash and now I want nothing to do with this friend.
I know I am being judgemental on this issue, and I should just leave it alone. Afterall he has the right to be with whomever he pleases. I just don't like the fact how he proceeded with moving on with the new gal so quickly. As a woman I feel so bad for the ex, no one should be treated that way. He should have been honest from the beginning instead of doing what he did.
I don't know the new gal, and probably won't ever get the chance to since he has been distant with everyone lately. My husband saw him and the new gal the other day, my friend didn't say a word to him. The new gal was checking out my husband and as soon as my friend notice she turned away. Can't stop but feel that she is "trash" to me.
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I think you're right. People who make this leap, also leap out of the circle of 'friends'. This is smart, because really, people who treat others badly, are just waiting for their turn to treat you badly.
- KittenLv 41 decade ago
Unfortunately, as disappointing as this can be, its not your call to make. If he's happier with his younger gf (though letting her move in the day after probably wasn't the best idea) and it bothers you that much, don't associate with him anymore.
- 1 decade ago
i think this is a very judgemental question. I'm sure your friend is wonderful, but clearly she and her BF weren't sexually compatible, which is pretty important if you are going to commit yourself sexually to one person. So he moved on to this younger girl who he is more ocmpatible with. Now whether they will be emotionally compatible and all that, remains to be seen. But I think defining one as Class and one as Trash is judging based on emotions.
