is it true if a man is accusing you of cheating and you are not.?

It's called having a guilty conscience!

My husband did this for the first 3 years of out marriage only because he was insecure and jealous. His ex left him for someone else and was cheating on him. What finally stopped the nonesence of him accusing me is I told him, "Yes. You are right. I am cheating on you and if you can find the proof you may leave me without any guilt." He quickly shut up and has never accused me of any cheating ever again.

No, that is not true. Sometimes a man can have been cheated on in a previous relationship which can cause him to be insecure. Or he could have cheated with a married woman and when he gets married he begans to wonder if his wife is doing the same to him. Or you maybe sending cheating vibes to him.

I don't think so neccessarily but its hard to tell which guys are accusing are the ones doing the deed. If he is jealous and insecure it doesn't mean he is the one cheating. It just means he's jealous and insecure. Perhaps counseling to boost self esteem can remedy the jealousy and insecurity.

Sometimes it's true and sometimes it isn't. Some men are just naturally jealous and insecure, or they became that way after being cheated on in the past.

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You answered your own question when you state "especially if he's jealous and insecure."

It is not true that he is guilty of cheating if he is accusing you.

I don;t know about every situation, but in mine personally yes! My ex-husband continuously accused me of cheating and come-to-find-out guess who was the cheater. He even accused me of sleeping with my own cousin (how gross). Well needless to say we are divorced and I am happily re-married and he is still from one woman to another and very unhappy. Oh well.

Yes

no... its usually women who swear that black is white... if the guy suspects your cheating then obviously you aren't doing your best to convinvce him otherwise....

It works both ways. (or rather, it doesn't)

How do I know? because I used to be as jealous and insecure as they come. Costly.

Good call CQL... all guys are not the same yet it's hard to make someone understand that past experiences do mess you up... (that works both ways too).