How Can I Stop Cheating On My Guy?

You should either tell the other guys that you have a boyfriend or you should tell your boyfriend that you wanna see other guys.Don't play around with any of their feelings.It's not right of you to do that to your boyfriend especially when he isn't even there.Would you want him to do that to you?If he did would you want him to let you know so you could decide if you wanted to be with someone who would do that to you.You should think about that.Well,good luck.

I don't know you at all, so I could be wrong, wrong, wrong about what I'm writing. But I relate to this question because that used to be me. I was always looking for the thrill of somone wanting ME, like they "couldn't help themselves because I was so sexy" want me. But that need for external attention broke every one of my relationships through my 20's. So if you are resonating with what I am writing, I hope I can help.

If you are cheating because you are bored, crave the excitement and ego boost of guys wanting you/flattering attention, or are hooked on the "hunt and chase" of it, it's a YOU issue. You may be better off single in the long run, for now. Once you can get all the approval you need by paying attention to yourself, knowing in your heart you are attractive, and no longer requiring the outside attention/acceptance you may crave from others, you'll be on the road. If you are young, you can stop this pattern now. Once you step over the line in one relationship, it's really easy (and habit forming) to do it in the next one, and the next one, etc.

If it isn't any of the above and I am totally wrong about the motivation behind your cheating: maybe you just are keeping your options open because you really aren't into this guy. If that's it, break up with him asap. He could think your cheating is some commentary on his manhood, and that can really mess him up. And even if it is, you don't need to hang on to him to destroy him later.

That's my best guess. Good luck.

By the way: did either of your parents cheat? I wonder if there is also a pattern there to contend with. Maybe not. Just a guess. There was in my situation. I never got the example of a couple working something out together.

I wish you well. You'll probably be someone's wife one day. The habits you form now could carry over to relationships that really mean alot to you. It is possible to turn this around. But it's a lot of work. Best of luck.

Imagine he is doing the same thing at this moment. How would you feel?

I think you need to be honest with yourself and your boyfriend. You are wasting your time hanging on to a relationship you really aren't invested in. Let the boyfriend go and move on with your life.

just keep dating him like you do the other guys and don't hold the title as girlfriend and boyfriend

Umm..stop dating him. Karma is a ***** and what goes around comes back around ten-fold. I think it's something that you need to deal by yourself..if you're having a problem stopping then you have issues you need to deal with.

I would say stop cheating on him or break up with him.

If ur that bad break up with him no need to hurt the poor guy.

once a cheater always a cheater.......why u even have a bf then

ummmm....close your legs??