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should everyone keep some secerts from there partner?

Should your partner know if you every thought of killing your self, or stole something from a store but never got caught?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Not about killing yourself. You should tell your spouse so they can get out of the way.

  • 1 decade ago

    Of course if your thoughts are about self destructive issues you need to reach out to your husband and tell him. In any marriage, if you cannot be able to go to your partner and reveal your inner fears and feelings then something in the marriage lacks intimacy. But to feel one has to reveal every single thing to their spouse is unrealistic. Then this becomes burdensome and unfair. Always reveal only what you know your spouse has a right to know. If it is something in the past that has no bearing on your relationship with him now, then what would be the reason to tell him if only to hurt him? Always take care of your husbands feelings and treat him with the highest respect is all you need to do.

  • 1 decade ago

    No you don't have to tell them every little detail like stealing and never getting caught unless it was recent and you still may get caught. The thought of killing yourself i would tell him. That is something serious and should you get thise feelings again and don't seek professional help maybe he/she could possibly help you because they may recognize the signs due to the fact they know you once had suicidal thaghts in the past.

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think things like that are very important...I'm sure your partner will get to know you well enough to know if you would ever do those things anyway. Being fake is never the way to go, but that stuff really isn't important.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    um why would u steal? and if u want to kill yourself are u depressed? tell someone before u get cgauth breaking the law and end up in jail or worse

  • 1 decade ago

    I think that everyone has their own secrets that nobody will ever know. I think it's healthy for your own self to maintain a bit of secrecy.

  • 1 decade ago

    Every relationship has it's secrets and if they say they don't they're lying. If you feel your secrets need to be told tell them it's not going to change someones feelings about you if they love you.

  • 1 decade ago

    yea off course they should know every little thing about you, that way you can gain trust with each other.. if you keeo it then it could lead to other things you might not know it, but it will get worse and worse

  • 1 decade ago

    yes, i keep some things from my partner. he doesn't have to know everything!

  • 1 decade ago

    some things should only be between u and God. why tell everything. women do that too much. trust me when i say that men don't tell the half of their s^%$!!!

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