Have you ever dreamed you were mad at your spouse?

I've had dreams like that. My wife is a great wife, she takes great care of me and we're happy. We've had our share of fights, and stress, but overall we're good to each other. Yet, I've still had some really wierd dreams over the years.

Sometimes I'll have dreams where she's ignoring me in a crowded room, or dream she's introduced me to a guy and I'll sense there's something between them, or I'll dream that she wants away from me.

Then I'll wake up and feel like it was real. It can make for a pretty bad start to a day, especially if it's a work day, and I don't want to get up as it is.

I chalk these dreams up to fears of abandonment, or something that when I'm conscious I have a secure handle on, but when I'm asleep and my subconscious is in control, I 'm vulnerable to.

I don't believe that they are premonitions of the future, or something like that, I think it has more to do with my subconscious.

We have a rule at our house: Never go to bed mad. In order to dream about it, there must have been some sort of trigger before you went to bed. After having a dream like that I'd think about it and see if there was any truth in my feelings of why I was angry. I'd probably feel tense all day, so it would be better to discuss it with your spouse.

Make a nice breakfast, give a great big hug and tell yourself how silly the dream was.

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I think that's happened to me a couple of times. I even called my fiance an a**hole one morning when I woke up from having a dream where I was mad at him. He was like "Why am I an a**hole" and I told him about my dream. He just rolled his eyes and we both laughed. Dreams are just your subconscious way of sorting through what's happening in your life. They don't really have meaning.

Yes! I will usually stay mad for 6 hours or so after waking up. I tell him and we laugh about it but I can't shake the anger for a while. I have very in depth dreams that seem real anyway.. good or bad.

I do. Some days I find it really hard to get past them too. It helps if I tell my hubbie about them.

I think it is pretty normal. My sister has a fantastic marriage to a wonderful guy and some mornings she says she wakes up positively livid at him for something he has done in a dream. LOL

Happens all the time. We probably are experiencing some insecurity issues subconsciously and it manifests itself in our dreams. Don't make to much out of it.

my wife has told me she was mad at me after a dream several times

That wasn't a dream

Yes! It's really weird! I'm not even angry at him when I go to sleep, yet when I wake up, it all feels so real!