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Mena
Lv 4
Mena asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

any body explain how women think?

there is a girl i met during a course

she is very nice, We used to chat on-line

after a month or so we have became very close, we trust each other, talk about private things, never asked her to do something and she refused, etc .....

now 4 months have passed and we are getting even closer, so where is the problem?

here is the funny thing, we are only close when we chat on the Internet or when we talk.

but she never act as a friend, never being in the same team, never studied something together (except once when i asked for it). [she does only what i ask for]

we have almost never sit behind each others

i thought she is not really interested in me, but when I began to show some ignorance to her she got really mad

she always "says" how much she love me (as a friend)

yet, never act like it

I asked her weather she want an on-line friendship or real one

that was her answer

"why don't we be simple? just love & act based on that love"

some body tell me what should I do?

Update:

so because she is shy I have to keep bugging (sorry asking) her to join me in each team i make and keep asking her to study with me each subject I study, won't that be silly acting from me?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It's complicated. Don't worry too much and let things get the flow.

  • 1 decade ago

    chat on-line is very different from personally talking to each other. maybe she is just nervous it is very different 4m talking to a comp. screen to a real person. but u can try talking to her less online and more personally so yall can have a stronger friendship

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    She's Feeling Shy

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Get a real girl ,this one is a phony.Don't get too involved or you are going to regret it. You can be her friend,but keep a good distance.

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  • 1 decade ago

    What did you ask her to do and she refused? something sexual? She is trying to let you down easy and just wants to be friends, I suggest you back off.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    by all my years in this international, i found out that a woman does not be attentive to what she needs until she sees it.....do like me and use your mind's eye, you purely might desire to hit her candy spot.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hahaha! shes just waiting for you to act first.

    guys just dont seem to understand that they act first!

    walk up to her one day sit right next to her and give a great big hug...

    then smile and start a conversation.

    hope it works out!

  • 1 decade ago

    she is a girl...girls love to be sneaky about things and just come out and say u love her or give her flowers. she really likes u...girls are just like that.

  • 1 decade ago

    act first..your friend is just being shy...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i don't even think women themselves could tell you "how women think"

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