Ladies-over 30- I have already asked the guys I need your input?

leave him. honestly, you've tried talking, he won't listen, instead he gets angry. he's not over her and taking into account the length he's known her, he won't get over her for some time.

if you stay, be prepared for a bumpy ride and an unhappy ending.

Yes you have a war out there is good to have a strategy not to fight the war. Win him over, woe him over needs patience and endurance. Do you have all the time? Check out what he likes in that old flame and be a bit more creative ,or make him notice all the goodness in you...... Will all this help? I dont know. try

You don't need to have strategies like what you are thinking right now. Just be natural as the way you are. If he doesn't want to talk it over then he might be guilty of his doings. You have to let him choose between you and the other girl.

You can't fix a problem with him if he's not even willing to address it. Bring it up to him again, and try not to be accusatory in your questions, just be honest that this is something that you feel insecure about. It's an understandable worry, and if he's the special person that you think he is, he will understand that.

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you cant change anyone. if he is going to go back you cant do anything. if he stays with you, and he doesn't make things clear to her, your going to have to deal with her and this problem throughout your relationship. You are you there is nothing special that you can do to change his mind about you or her. So you have to decide to wade it out and see what moves he makes in the situation, or get out.

well I don't know how good is that bu try to be distant some time, let him think. if you tried to talk about it and he doesn't want too then there's nothing that you can do if he's not open for a communication.

I would just give him an ultimatum, "It's me or her." If he chooses her, hey, you don't want to be with someone like that anyway. 99% of guys come with previous relationships. Find one who isn't still hung up on his.

say good buhhhhhhhhh Byeeeeee!