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What should I do?
Well, there's a guy who's been a good friend of mine since my sophomore year in college. We both graduated in 2005, and haven't lost touch--in fact, we've talked fairly often and have gone out a few times. I've confessed my love for him and to be honest, I wish he would choose me as his girlfriend, but I've been willing to wait until he made a decision. He says he's not exactly ready for a relationship with anyone yet, but I'm not exactly sure what I should do in this case.
I should have added, the reason he said he wasn't ready for a relationship with anyone just yet is because he recently ended one about three months ago.
Clam, actually no. I told him how I really felt only a month or so ago. I couldn't add many of the fine details because I ran out of characters, sorry for the misconception.
7 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Please tell me you're not just sitting around waiting for this fellow to make up his mind. You need to get out, meet new fellows and make yourself a new life because this guy has had two years to make up his mind about what he wants and hasn't done it yet so wake up and smell the coffee.
Does he date other girls? Does he like guys? Ask yourself these questions, while you are waiting for you to answer, go out and have some fun.
- 1 decade ago
Honey, you can't make someone love you. Either they do or they don't. Move on. There's a man out there who will give you the love you deserve. Who knows? Give the other guy some room and he may discover what he's missing. Gipsi
Source(s): Experience - 1 decade ago
well you could hurthis feelings by going out and getting a boyfriend but on the other hands it wrong of him to make you wait till he has made a decision so if i was you i would take time of him and study yourself for a while
good luck
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Sure has the ear marks of someone that prefers same sex to opposite. You can wait for ever and get no place.
I bet his last was a boyfriend.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
hmmm.... kind of confusing..., but I think that either you can be friends, or you can be together. Ask him to try being in a relationship with you, can if it doesn't work out, then you can just stay friends... Good Luck!!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
just remain for now as you were before-a good friend. He'll come around or something better will come along
