Do you think we have the potential to turn into an actual relationship?

it is possible,, but i dont recommed you to do so..

plz go throught the link..

I would love to tell you "yes, it could turn into an actual relationship" but I can't do that. It sounds like he likes you but he is not interested in a relationship at this time.

Would you be willing to tell your friends about hooking up? If so, you need to ask yourself why he wants to keep it secret. Why does he want to hide it? How do you know he has not been seeing other girls?

Also, I believe if he was truly interested he would make an effort to keep in touch during your month long winter break. It is 2008 (almost) and we have telephones, cell phones, e-mail, etc. It is possible that the both of you may have hooked up because you made yourself available for hooking up only and he didn't feel there was any pressure to offer you more than that.

I think that you need to ask him if he is interested in a relationship or if he wants to stay friends. The worse thing he will say is no and at least that way you know what the deal is and you can move on.

Good luck. I hope it works out for you.

It sounds like he really likes you but is keeping his options open in case something better comes along. He probably doesn't realize how good it could be between you and has some fantasy idea of the perfect girlfriend. My fiance and I have been together for 5 years now, but the first year and a half of dating was very non committal. He later told me that he thought he wanted something else but when the opportunity arose he realized that he really loved me and not his fantasy girl. We are together now and I think we are a stronger couple for the hardships we had to begin with. Instant head-over-heals love doesn't last, but we love each other more as time goes on. So to sum up, yes you guys could become a real couple in the future just don't rush it. On the other hand, don't let him walk all over you.

Dear Potential:

I think that any one who is interested in you would want to make it clear to everyone. "[G]et to know them more," is understanding, but why on the hush??? Did it ever occur to you -- he might be keeping others on the hush too. How on earth do you know that "he hasn't hooked up with any other girls"? Do you have spies? Come on! Are you serious? I'm just trying to be honest with you.

I love love -- it's the greatest thing! However, love is not unkind, and does not keep people a secret. While on Winter break, think about it, go out and meet some other guys -- no to the relationship.

I think there is a potential spark there, but like you said, he will randomly hook up with friends to see if he likes them. If you two decide to officially become boyfriend and girlfriend, make sure he isn't hooking up with other people. Remember: "Trying to figure out what I like" is not an excuse to make out with someone besides your significant other! Good luck if you decide to hit it off. :)

~Kat

It sounds a bit suspect to me, if he's not ready to take your relationship public then maybe you shouldn't be sneaking around with him? Tell him you want to tell your friends about the 2 of you and his reaction should let you know whether or not to try and make it work with him.

and you know he hasnt hooked up with anybody else because why, he said so?? did you ever think he wont let you meet his friends and wants to keep it a secret cause you are not the only one, and he doesnt want to get caught .

ya i think u do.. especially if al u do wen u hook up is make out...

well u need ot describe hes personalty more.. so uncertain so basically its either he loves u or he is using you

listen to your heart!