Secrets on his computer?

tooo bad you cannot give all the previous answers the best answer....they are right on.... trust is something earned and obviously not by your husband... anyone that needs to erase their hystory on a computer from a spouse is up to lies and deceit... all of which do not reinforce the building blocks of a healthy marriage...

set aside extra (money from your share of spending cash) and when you can get out on your own leave the guy..another hint is have the internet connection shut off....

Does it really matter what he's looking at or who's he's talking to? Your issues are much more complex and deeper that this. What would it prove if you discover what sites he visits. You already know anyway.

Where do you want to go with this relationship? Your attempts to spy are not making things better. If you just want "proof" so you can divorce with some self satisfaction, fine. But if you want to make things work - then this is the wrong tact.

Decide what you want.

Communicate your concerns and goals to your husband.

Seek counseling.

I think that you are just as bad, sneaking around like a detective trying to uncover evidence.

You all need to just talk and get things out in the open. If you really think he is fooling around, hire a PI, and he will find out quickly for you.

Otherwise, don't be so paranoid, and stop being a snoop. Nothing worse.

Don't know if this helps or hurts but why do you care EXACTLY what sites he's visiting? He's cheated and you stayed when you shouldn't have. My suggestion is you figure out exactly why you stay with a bum when you know deserve better. My guess would be that you don't feel worthy of a non-cheating spouse. Why don't you?

Stop snooping on the computer. If you are sure he's cheating, then just put money on the side and move out. Let's see where he stands when your gone and he isn't being supported

What !?! You work and he is at home ? The stupid jerk does not know how good he has it ! You caught him once, but.... Heck, he is just careless. Kick him out if you suspect something. No tolerance for stupidity and what about STDs ? One of the unfair realities is that the wife or girlfriend gets Herpes or HIV.

Install a keylogger program on his computer.

Even if he is smart enough to cover his tracks (deletes history), a keylogger records everything he does in a secrete file for your viewing.

I agree with those answers above me. There are lots of secrets in computers. I found my ex had a "secret" life. Good luck to you.

Buy a Keyghost (piece of hardware) and install it on your computer.

It will let you know everything he types down to the last letter.

Good luck, sounds like you will need it!

If you can't trust him, is there any point of remaining married? what a jerk. Just leave him. He's not worth your worrying.