don't know where else to ask...?

Here... this website really does have some very useful information... be sure to check out the links on the page, too.

http://lesbianlife.about.com/od/lesbiansex/qt/Oral...

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Pay close attention to your partner's likes and dislikes. What really gets her going. Cookie cutter books never get it quite right anyway. Communication is what's most important. Listen to your partner (not just what she says, but how she reacts and responds). Let your partner know what's working for you. If it's your first time, be honest with her and let her know. Most likely she'll be flattered and be more than willing to help show you the ropes.

I am not sure of any websites. Sorry. You could always just order the book online and get it that way. At least you wouldn't have to feel embarrassed.. it would just be delivered in a box to your door! Sorry I couldn't be more help.

Save your money, The way to be a better lesbian in bed is to listen to be attentive to you partners needs and not being afraid to communicate your needs. Sex should be fun and adventurous; you should not be afraid to ask your partner what makes them feel good or what do they like. So listening, open communication and application will make you a damn good lesbian in the sack.

Redtube has lesbian scenes, but get yourself a sensual massage books and give each sensual massages has a build up. Share a bath or shower. Tie each other up and tease the other.

I know you probably don't want to buy a book, but if you order it online, you can save yourself the embarrassment....anyway, there is a book called "I love female orgasm." It is a great book! You can check it out on amazon.com.

Try massage. Fantastic to give. Beautiful to receive. Don't have hang ups about this. Of course, it's possible that you are not with the right partner?

I agree with Jamie P, and take heed of what Squeaky has to offer. As with anything, practice makes perfect. Good luck.