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How to get my sweetie to relax about my nudism...?
My boyfriend was never comfortable about revealing his body, and never used to disrobe completely to have sex. I have broken him of his shame, but only when it's just the two of us. I'm interested in social nudity and was recently invited to attend a local naturalist society with a good friend.
He doesn't wish to stop me from exploring nude recreation, but his views on nudity rub me the wrong way. We agree that sex and other related activity should be exclusively within a committed relationship, but he also feels that a naked body is something special and should only be exposed to one's partner.
I feel that this view is a case related to the idea of equating nudity with sexuality that plagues the US. I used to feel the same way, and I'm wondering if I can do anything to help him see things from my perspective. I feel it would help him relax about my interest in participating in social nudity, and maybe get him to join in and enjoy its liberating and empowering effects himself.
3 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well just understand that your views on nudity are not the norm. It's not unreasonable of him to feel that full nudity should be reserved for sexual partners.
It's one thing for him to see it from your perspective, it's quite another to share your perspective. If he can see it from your perspective then you can't expect much more. If he is comfortable with you going out and being nude with strangers (I know I wouldn't be comfortable if I had a girlfriend who did that) then you should be glad to have this guy.
- bigfred1954Lv 41 decade ago
Seems like he has compromised all ready , in seeking to satisfy you , and to prove to you that he is open to new things .
To a point ! Now perhaps it is your turn . Do not push to hard here , or you may push him out of your life .
- gromit801Lv 71 decade ago
Time for a new BF. There is a fundamental difference in the way each of you views life. You can't change him, and you shouldn't change yourself.